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51-59,
*oolbird
writes:My wife has been masturbating a lot lately. She has stated that she had never even masturbated before. She is now 44 and she masturbates regularly. I have figured out that she masturbates at least 4 times a night when I work nights. Even if I leave for a few hours, she masturbates then. We have great sex when we are together. I know that she orgasms. But she has said in the past that I only want to do it when I want to, not when she does. I am distraught that she is doing this without me. She busies herself now so much that she's tired and wants to go to bed. But I found out she doesn't go straight to bed when I'm not here. When I told her that I wanted to participate, she got upset that I would want her to do that in front of me and that it was embarassing. From what I heard her doing, she didn't seem too embarassed. I even thought I heard her talking low to someone too. I surely hope she is not having phone sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2008): Have you considered asking your wife to masturbate you? My wife and I are in our mid 50s and wish we had discovered this pleasure earlier in life. It is sooo good to have someone else do it. The orgasms are WOW!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2008): I started to masturbate also in my forties, hubby caught me a few times we agreed that we would both play with ourselves in front of each other and it was fantastic as I watched hubby spurt cum all over himself I had the biggest orgasam I'd ever had!
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reader, JustChillin +, writes (18 October 2008):
 OMGawd...would you rather her be "doing the deed" with another man...or her sex toy(s)? In case you're not aware...women have their sexual peak, or more of a sex drive in their forties. My suggestion to you...is you'd better step up to the plate and give her more sex...or lay off her for masturbating...which by the way...is a great way to relieve built up stress. Maybe you ought to give it a try yourself!! =))
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reader, treats +, writes (17 October 2008):
I think you should try talking to her about it. sit her down at a time when she seems like she's not busy or distraught and talk to her about what's been going on and how you feel. make sure not to blame her for anything. Tell her how YOU feel. you have been married long enough to know what her buttons are so don't try to push them. be gentle as this might be hard for her.Maybe you should try to find another way to satisfy her sexually. different position perhaps?
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reader, 1trainer1  +, writes (17 October 2008):
There is nothing wrong with masturbating as it is something that we all do, guys and girls but if she doesn't want you to join in then maybe I suggest one night you do it when you know she is coming to bed and let her catch you in the act, she may enjoy that and suprise you.
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