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writes:My boyfriend of a year keeps cheatin on me. I found it in my heart to forgive him but he has cheated again with a my so called "friend". I love him dearly. He is the only boy I really loved. We are broken up but somethin inside of me wants him back. I want to fight the girl and him too I am so confused I need advice now!!!!!!!!!!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2008): This is the thing: You love who you thought he was, what he used to be. This is why you took him back and now currently want him.
He is not that special guy you fell in love with anymore. He has hurt you real bad & you shouldn't just take that.
If you look for someone else, you'll move on no problem. Please try and find a good, faithful, and loving guy. If you don't, don't hang in and try to work it out, don't waste your time when you could be with a really great guy.
Good luck!
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reader, Missy Missouri  +, writes (17 October 2008):
 I'm going to say it straight right now. He's cheated on you! He's done this with a friend of yours behind your back! You may miss him being around you and still love him, but have respect for yourself! The easier thing would be to argue with them, or take him back. But the harder thing would be to hold your head up high, walk away from both of them and show them that it hasn't affected you. Why give them the satisfaction of hurting you so much? Grab your pride with both hands and hit them where it hurts. As we were all told when younger, if you ignore someone its hurts them more than to argue with them. It shows they don't get to you! No matter how much it hurts or how much you want him back, don't do it, get out there and i'm sure you will find someone who will show you trust and respect. Until then work on yourself, build your confidence up and start enjoying life!As for your friend, i'd say get rid of her. The only way i would consider still being friends with someone if they done that to me would be if they were one of my oldest childhood friends who were like a sister to me and who was truly sorry and disgusted by their own actions. You deserve better friends and a much better boyfriend!x
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reader, MichelleB +, writes (17 October 2008):
Wow, I would say forget this guy! Clearly he doesn't treat you the way you deserve to be treated besides he already cheated on you! This happened with me and my fiance after I caught him cheating. So we broke up immediately and I sold the diamond engagement ring he gave me to www.idonowidont.com to get some closure. Move on girl!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (17 October 2008):
 He is cheating on you because he doesn't love YOU dearly. Why would you want him back? He will do it again and again. Dump the loser and find someone worthy of you. Oh and dump this so called friend while you are at it.
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