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How can I change my feelings for this girl?

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Question - (17 October 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 17 October 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have loved the same girl for four years and she jus doesn't feel the same. I have tried asking her out several times on different occasions she said alright, but every time I set a date she was "busy". I took the hint and tried to move on. Now, in college, I know inside I still love her, and she was single for a while and i thought we had something, but she went back to the same guy again. I cant change my feeling for her. What can i do to change this feeling?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2008):

Thanks your advice really helps me.. I know that it probably will never work out and I need to forget bout it.. Thanks again..

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2008):

Keep yourself busy, Date, exercise, Date, join a club, Date, go to more parties, and DATE. Eventually you'll meet someone and she will be a distant memory.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2008):

:-(

I don't think you can do anything. Maybe see if you can become interested in someone else? Really put an effort into trying to find a girl who likes you for you and won't ditch you on dates.

Just so you know, and I'm sorry to say it like this, but the girl you are so madly in love with is a total jerk & completely stuck up.

If you really think about it, what kind of a sweet, caring, loving person lets someone get their hopes up repeatedly and then bail on them? She isn't as great as you think. I'm sorry, but it's true. She's actually really mean.

If you try, I really think you'll find someone actually worthy of your love.

Good luck!

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