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anonymous
writes: my girlfriend stopped talking to me as much and we seem to be having trouble talking to each other. Lately we have been having awkward silences when talking. I don't know what to do.... Does anyone have sugestions on what I could do to make it easier to talk to her? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell first I'd like to say thank you all for your help and second that we are talking more now and getting back to what it used to be :) thank you all so much for your responces
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2008): Just be completely honest and tell her exactly how you feel. Was the relationship always like this or do you think its just a phase?
Remind her of all the good times you have had together, and be really open. If the relationship is boring you both, you could always suprise her by doing something romantic like going away for the weekend, buying a thoughtful gift, or maybe just a picnic!
Don't let it fall to pieces because things arent as good as they were, but if there really is a problem you may need to end the relationship
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2008): well, i guess u should talk through it with her.
lay out all the problems.. and settle it.
no point keeping it in the jar
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