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writes:he told me that he loves me but not in love. two years of being together and a year n a half of living together. i supported him and his career options and he lost the career. i helped him start school all cause of me i never asked him for nothing. he not working n i handled everything. four girls are getting his attention now he wants to leave. after all the memories n stories shared. he easily acted like we never had anything together. what gives? Reply to this Question
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reader, Blakeman1973 +, writes (17 October 2008):
If he's dating other women then he's not worth the time.Plenty of other men out there that would love to meet a good woman.Good luck
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reader, benefattore +, writes (17 October 2008):
 He probably wants some kind of sexual attention you're not giving him. OR (I hate to say it) he's not attracted to your looks. I could be wrong, but that's what I've seen happen in my experience. Is everything going good in the sexual aspect of the relationship? Is he getting what he wants?
In my sociology AND psychology class I was told around two years is when relationships get rough -and its been proven- partners lose their attraction to one another (emotionally, sexually, and physically). Wants he loses you, hopefuly he will release what he lost. Then if he has his head screwed on right he'll come crawling back to you after realizing that his promiscuous desires were not as important as being loved by you.
As far as him not loving you, it's quite possible. He might care about you to a deep level and call it love, but beign IN love is totally different.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2008): He doesn't love you like you love him and you have given A LOT to him. He doesn't deserve you. Be angry that he's treated you like a doormat. You deserve so much better, especially a sweetheart like you who has given so much. You have alot of love to give and you're squandering it on a jerk like him. He's not worthy of you.
Move on and up.
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