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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Please help me! I feel so alone. I cry myself to sleep every night thinking about everything going wrong in my life. I am a varsity drop out with no job, no money, no love, am just alone. Getting out of bed is a hassle.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2008): Yeah,I dunno. Maybe go to counseling? It helps. You should also maybe try and make friends (if you don't already) and talk to them or just have them so you don't feel so alone. Maybe your family could also help you? Like, a support system?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2008): Go out meet people
Find a sugar daddy to look after you
Get back into varsity
Get a degree, find a job,make money and be happy
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2008): Don't worry...everyone can feel this way sometimes, like they have nothing and no one, but it simply isn't true.
I dont know why you dropped out, or what other things have gone wrong in your life. All I know is that to be really happy and to find love, you first need to be happy with yourself and comfortable for a while in being alone - it sounds stupid and cheesy I know but it is true.
Take some time to be upset, then gradually stand on your own two feet and find a job, find out what you want to do with your life. There are plenty of people who are not educated but are perfectly happy with the jobs they find because they research and find something they really want to do or can give them a comfortable life. Spend time with the friends and people in your life you truly value. If you feel you dont have enough friends you will meet them while jobhunting and being out and about. And then when you are happy with your career and friends, look for love.
I have every faith things will work out for you. After every darkness and every night, a new day begins.
Good luck.
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