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writes:i don't know what's wrong with me??? i'm becoming crazy! cuz i can't have a seriuosly relationship with some guy! .. i don't know why??? ... i'm a model in my free time! thus I'm pretty but they don't love me! as i wanna it! .. What should i do???do u think the problem am i the problem??? i really need some help! ..i'm still be a virgen! and i wanna lose it in my weedng day! .. i'm not an idiot! i love to read and to write! :D and I'm a party girl! so friendly! can be friend of evrybody! i don't wanna ask my friends cuz they are gonna start to believe that im not trust in my self! when my friends ask me things like Why don't u date somebody? I'm like oh! Ididn't meet my perfect guy! or that kind of things! ..everbody around Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2008): Would we????????????? !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! As if!!!!!!!!!!!
Maybe the keyboard problem had something to do with the fingers that were hitting it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Everybody back around!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIf I had a couple of mistakes into my question, it was my fault cuz my keyboard had a lot of troubles .. lol thanx everyboby who cares about my trouble! ..Maybe the right guy is coming! Who knows??lol.. and please if somebody wants to write something it has to be something to help me .. please don't write mean answers or don't try to piss me off! ..
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2008): Sorry Eyes - I hope you didn't ruin your keyboard.
Take a look at the Xmas prezzie threrad on the forum.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (17 October 2008):
 Uncle Phil you made my coffee come out my nose!
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (17 October 2008):
Hi,
I know how you feel.
Up until about the age of 18, I never had a bf...infact I never had a guy ask me out or show any interest in me.
I myself too have done some modelling, so it wasnt an issue of being 'too ugly'.
For myself, I think it was an issue of me being really shy and giving off the wrong signals. Guys were to scared to talk to me and ask me out. They didnt think I was interested because i gave off the wrong signals. So they nevr bothered making a move.
Maybe this could be happening with you?
Maybe alot of guys assume you are already taken because you seem like such a great catch!
Or it could be as someone else suggested that you tell them you are waiting for marriage to have sex, so that puts them off. I think its great you are waiting- it shows strength in character and its something that is becoming less and less common these days. Although its not as common these days, I think you should stick by it, because its what you obviously believe in.
I think its important to be upfront about who you are and waht you believe in when you meet a guy. So dont hide the fact tht you want to wait till marriage in fear of putting him off. Atleast if you tell him, you can weed out all the bad guys who are only really looking for sex and who dont share similar views.
Are you religous? Maybe you could go to church or join some youth type group to meet more guys your age, who are likely to be saving themself too.
My final point is, if you like a guy, show genuine interest and be friendly. But you have to make it obvious that you are not just being friendly, or treating him how you would treat everyone else. YOu have to treat him in a 'special' way i guess.
Theres nothing wrong with you! Alot of people find it hard to find someone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2008): You say you're not an idiot, but from reading this you certainly come across as one. I can't understand what you're asking - if anything.
I usually put Saturdays aside to do my weeding, then if I've not cleared them all I can continue on Sunday.
Everybody around. That sounds like a party invite. Do you have a lot of weeds - or did you smoke some before writing this?
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