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age
41-50,
*adelil24
writes:Dear Cupid,Please help im not sure what it means/am having trouble reading the signals.I went on a date on sat night with someone that i met online. The date seemed to go well, he said that he enjoyed it, walked me to the car and the end of the night and then grabbed me and kissed me. I then text him the next day and said that i had a nice time and i would like to meet again. He replied and said that he had a nice time aswell and yeah we can meet again. We have also conversed a couple of times since by txt and once online on Monday. On Monday he asked me if he was i expected him to be and asked me if i was ok with him kissing me that soon. We then carried on the conversation and he said that i was sweet. He ended the conversation i have to go, shower then bed. Talk soon. xx I also asked him if he is interested in meeting again and he said yes but he is not sure when.He started a new job yesterday so i thought that i would just send a polite txt asking how he was and how his first day went and he did not reply.Am i reading in to this too much? How long does a guy mean when he says talk soon? Is in in to me/does he like me?I really liked him and want to see him again. I dont want to come across as desperate but im really keen to speak to him again. How long should i leave it before i message him again?
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reader, boo22 +, writes (27 November 2008):
 dont text or call him,you just come across as desperate. Let him get in touch with you and when he does let him take the lead and wait for a while till you have sex. good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2008): I agree with the other poster...Back right off now, dont text him again unless he texts you. Guys can get a bit funny sometimes if they feel pressured. And yes also, dont have sex right away. Dont rush anything. Let him chase u a bit :) xxx
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reader, Teacake  +, writes (26 November 2008):
 The big mistake women make is being impatient. We ruin things by contacting them too much and too soon. Let it rest until he contacts you otherwise he will get the idea that you are too needy and might be impatient about everything.
The best way to have a man call you is by not calling him or asking him too many questions. It is not a relationship. Just one date. If you act like a desperate woman who doesn't have patience he will run away real fast.
Let things evolve on their own. Don't call or text or anything. Don't pressure him with questions. Just enjoy each date until it seems a relationship is actually happening.
Do NOT sleep with him until you know him for several months. It appears you might have a problem with obsession, (takes one to know one lol) So, cool it and let him make all the moves!
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