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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I am 21 and have been with my boyfriend since I was 16. I have always been a jealous person, and a person who doesn't trust easily. My boyfriend has always been someone who didn't want to go out and liked to stay indoors, but it seems now we are going backwards in our relationship (he used to want to stay home and now he wants to go out more often, he used to not really talk to anybody else and now he's talking to more people including females) I don't want him to feel trapped but I don't want to be with someone I can't trust. We have a daughter who is 19 months old and I really want us to work, but I don't know how to have faith in a relationship that seems to be going backwards instead of forward.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2008): Men do change over the years as they get older, they like socialising a lot with different people so I have found doesn't mean he see's woman as anything more than a conversation. Your relationship is going backwards, he's just changing and so should you, maybe what you should do is plan a day a week - you get your mom or his mom or a relation or best mate to babysit so you can go out together. Tell him to pick a day he wants to go out you look after your baby then you pick a day to go out with your friends and he can look after your baby. I think the problem may be you don't get to let your hair down and relax, maybe you should try it then your relationship may be better.
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