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writes:I have just recently found out that my boyfriend of 2 n a half yrs with 2 kids has been downloading porn videos n texting girl 78888 etc numbers. I was pregnant at the time. Its constantly on my mind n upsets me. what shall i do? Please help.x
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2008): Print these forums and leave them next to the PC or the mags, whatever he does.
Whe he reads them he might understand better how you feel.
There are so many of us women in the same situation and while doing this helped our marraige it may not help in your case, but is well worth a try...good luck
p.s he had done it during every one of my pregnancies so I know how your feeling...take care of yourself :)
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reader, @pril  +, writes (26 November 2008):
 Well sweety,he sounds like a normal man!Think of it this way...there in his mind not real women.There someone he can forget within 2-8minutes.Im going through some very real issues on extreme version of this and believe me if this is all hes doing,it will be ok. Alot of men seem to use porn more when there lady is prego.I think its because they see you as fragile and dont want to hurt you or bother you with his wants.Your giving the ultimate gift to him,a improved version of himself.:) Dont stress over this,in time he will be shoving all that stuff away to spend time with his baby and his love(you).Its just his way to deal with a situation he has no control over.Im here if you ever need to chat more.Goodluck!
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