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writes:I'm a 22-year old male, and I often fantasize about having unprotected sex. I find the thought that there's a possibility of of fertilizing a woman with my seed and creating a new life inside her extremely arousing. Often when my ex-girlfriend and I had sex I'd secretly fantasize that she wasn't on birth control (she was on the shot), and I also think of it often when masturbating. It's not that I actually want to get a woman pregnant, but it's just the thought of it that arouses me. Is this normal? Are there any other men (or women) who are turned on by this idea? P.S. Yes I am very aware of the possibility of STDs, that's not what this post is about. I'm not saying I go off and have unprotected sex with everyone, this is merely something I fantasize about.
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reader, aunty_rach  +, writes (26 November 2008):
there is nothing wrong with having a fantasy like that. as long as it remains a fantasy, unless of course you are trying for a baby. enjoy it as a fantasy, but please god use protection!
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (26 November 2008):
 It is the very design of nature to procreate. Whether or not one subscribes to religious beliefs, it is the primary biological goal of every living thing on Earth to propagate its species, whether plant, animal or insect. So, you are perfectly normal in my opinion.
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reader, MissRosie +, writes (26 November 2008):
 You are very normal, don't worry! I'm sure its a common fantasy, after all its your biological drive to do so.xo missrosie
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reader, xxaziexx +, writes (26 November 2008):
 It's a nice fantasy : ) and different people fantasize about different things it doesn't make you abnormal at all. Not many men fantasize about something as romantic as that, what a nice bloke : )
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