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Should I ask him out, enjoy it and most likley ruin the friendship...?

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Question - (26 November 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 26 November 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

There's a boy I like and I think he likes me but I'm not too sure whether to ask him out or not. I mean, my friend used to like him, so I told her how I felt, she was fine and then a couple of months later she went off him. He is also one of my friends ex's and I know that's bad.....

Anyway does he really like me or is he just doing it because he can get away with it..... He's always hugging and getting close, as in almost kissing, he holds me round the waist and generally has his hand on my hip and the other day he gave me a 'love bite' =S

Every time someone says to him 'I think you two should go out' or anything like that he goes quiet then walks off and to be honest I'm just confused what I should do.

Should I ask him out, enjoy it and most likley ruin the friendship or just leave it 'coz hes not serious???

please help [=

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2008):

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ok well thanks for your advice :P

and everythings gone really well :D

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2008):

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Thanks but i think its easier if the boys asks because im quite shy and at least i know he does actually like me back.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2008):

hi i think you should ask him out aswelll. i think from what your saying he really likes you to and i think that he will say yes, i also agree that im making / i mean i think hes making to obvious so thats why he walks away and goes silent.

go for it and let me know how it goes. =]

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A male reader, Phsyciatrist-to-be United Kingdom +, writes (26 November 2008):

Phsyciatrist-to-be agony auntI dont see how asking him out can ruin the friendship: if it comes to a break-up, it shouldnt be that bad.

I would suggest that you do ask him out. I think the whole going quiet and moving away thing could be a realisation that he's being a little too obvious: I have friends who act in similar ways around crushes. So I recommend you go for it!

Jus be aware that I might be completely wrong, and he may just be fooling around. Dont take it too hard if he turns you down.

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