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writes:Hi, I wonder if you guys can help me. I work in a busy nightclub in London's west end as a Bouncer. It's become a busy period now as christmas and new year is coming and I'll be working a lot over this period. I told my girlfriend that I can't spend new years eve with her as I'll be working at the club. My girlfriend asked if she could come to the club on new years eve but I said no because I'll be so busy that she will be in my way and I'll have no time for her. Today behind my back she has gone on line and bought a ticket to come to the club. Because of this I'm so angry with her. Do you think I'm wrong in telling her not to come to the club on new years eve?
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reader, yum yum  +, writes (27 November 2008):
 You are not wrong for telling her not to come for new years eve because you have valid reasons, however don't be angry with her because she just wants to surprise you and it also shows that she really wants to be with you. Take care!
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reader, straight to the truth +, writes (26 November 2008):
Put simply...yes you are. i can see your point that you wont have time to spend with her but as long as she knows this then what harm does it do.
You are working on the biggest night of the year which in itself would be cause for her to be angry so instead she is just going to come to the club so that she at least gets to see you.
I cant see how it can do any harm if she is in the club new years eve. that way you can work and she is happy.
You should be pleased she wants to be there even though you are working.
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