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writes:My girlfriend and I have been having sex for 3 months, we try our best to be responsible and use condoms but occasionally in the heat of the moment we don't use one (but I always pull out and she's been fine).. Well the other night we wanted to have sex but we had used our last condom earlier that night and it was too late to go out and get more. Normally when we do it without a condom I'm on top so it's easy to withdraw when I know I'm getting close, but this time she was on top, and even though I told her when I was close and tried to pull out she didn't get up fast enough and I ended up shooting some inside her.. It was really just the first shot and the rest went outside her, what went in was shallow (near the opening, as she was getting up). Realistically, what are the chances she could get pregnant from this? She went to the bathroom and urinated and tried to get rid of what was there immediately after, and like I said it was just a little bit that actully went in her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2008): these days you can get pregnant by just sneezing!!!(sarcasm!!) i'm 14 an dprenant and i got pregnant this way so i'm living proof that you can get pregnant!! there are 14 yes 14 methods of contraception. you should know this. i did use it but it dint work!!! there is an injection that she only has to have every three months into her arm and it don't even hurt!!!! once it is in there is only one way it can't get out 9 months later!!!
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reader, Tunsat +, writes (26 November 2008):
I would say its very possible shes pregnant. The withdrawal method is only 70% effective when its performed at its best. Meaning when very experienced individuals who have the ability to kegel well and know when to pull out then the percentages are around 70%. This may sound good but I would tell you its definitely not something I would trust. A brand name condom with spermicide and the pill is in the high 90% for preventing pregnancy.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (26 November 2008):
 The chances are generally very high, depending upon the timing during her menstrual cycle.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2008): Sounds like she could quite easily be pregnant. Lots of times, the 'withdraw' method isn't even contingient on pulling out in time, as pre-cum leaks from the penis during the entirity of sex.Morning after pill sounds like a great idea in this case and maybe this scare will teach you not to be so irresponsible in future.
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reader, xxaziexx  +, writes (26 November 2008):
 She can easily get pregnant, not just this time but all the times before that, in which you havnt used a condom. there is still a chance that there is sperm in pre-come so its not about pulling it out in time!! i know this and im 15! I suggest she goes on the pill, unless you want a baby that is.
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reader, Teacake +, writes (26 November 2008):
 Realistically it sounds like you are in denial or misinformed about how easy it is to become pregnant.
The pulling out has nothing to do with sperm and fluids in ejaculation. Sperm can start leaving your body before ejaculation.
She needs to get on the Pill! If not that, spermicide is necessary. I thought sex education in school explained all that?
If you and she are not acting adult about this, pretending that pulling out is really a way to not have a baby, you better start thinking of what sort of job makes enough money to support a child. Please don't expect her to get an abortion as that will mess her up for years to come if she is in that predicament
A moment of fun can easily end up a lifetime of responsibility if you continue pretending that pulling out is a way to avoid making babies.
Please get real about this and realize she needs to go on the Pill or something else to avoid a major problem. Otherwise you might want to decide on girl names or boy names together and if she really wants an abortion or not or if you want to get married or not.
You are playing with fire if you rely on pulling out or thinking just a little isn't a problem. Even douching if a little gets in there is not effective either.
Visit planned parenthood together and get an education about this. Sex is not just fun and games.
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