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Seems he prefers his friends instead of me...

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Question - (26 November 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 28 November 2008)
A female South Africa age 41-50, *hants writes:

My boyfriend and I have been together for three years.

We were engaged, but I broke it off when he started another job and started to drink with the people from work till all hours of the morning. We got back together three weeks later, after he promised that he is not going out without me again. Well it started again. I am the type of person who feels that if you are in a relationship you do things together (I'm not saying you have to be together 24 hours a day) like going away for weekends and going out, I feel it is stuff you do together when you are in a relationship. Am I overreacting or not?

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A male reader, knight08 United Kingdom +, writes (28 November 2008):

knight08 agony auntHi,

No you’re not over reacting; I was in the same situation with my ex-girlfriend. She wanted to have more fun with her friends rather then with me, some times she even wanted to go out her self with her friends and I would just sit alone at home, apparently she broke up with me cuz she wanted to have fun and just enjoy her friends. It’s been 3 months from the break up and I still see her the same, perhaps people like them will never change. You sound a mature woman you deserve much better!

Good luck and take care!

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