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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Um, hey there. Recently there's this girl that I've developed a crush on. Well crush isn't really the best way to describe it. She's on my thoughts all of the time and I even dream about her. Unfortunately we have no classes together, and the only time we have is during lunch break and then she always sits by her friends. (all of whom are annoying as hell and I can't stand)I started talking to her recently. I only talked to her once (she didn't say anything back as it was a yes or no question: would you sit with me at lunch so we can talk?: and she only noddes yes) and the other times were through a note. I finally decided that maybe I wasn't best for her. So I gave her a note saying that I was like totally into her, but that I was afraid that if I got close to her I might hurt her. I thought that was all but her friends brought me a note that same day saying that the girl WOULD like to try dating. So my question is, do I go back on my word and try dating a girl that 1)Is as shy as I am. 2)Has the worst friends in history. 3)Has like no alone time to talk privately. Or do I just forget her? even though I still can't get her out of my mind. I really want help with this cause I'm at the end of my rope, I need help.
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reader, Asked Angel  +, writes (26 November 2008):
 If you want to be with someone i see your 'reasons' as nothing you can't get past if you truly want to. As you get to know each other and become more comfortable in each others company, you may stop being so shy around each other.
As for her friends you never no as you get to no them you might start finding out things about them that you like or at the very least realise they are not as bad as you thought.
If you really like this girl i think you should go for it because i truly think all these things can be changed as you get to know each other.
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