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female
age
41-50,
*stanie
writes: i haven't been with a women for about 5 years and want to get back in the dating scene. with my ex-girlfriends, i met them through friends. but how do i find a female these days without going to find them in nightclubs? for me, it's hard to find a female who is a straight lesbian and not just bi-sexual who wants me to join her and her boyfriend. and i'm more into females who has the girly look then butch. (urgh...it's sooo hard)
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reader, estanie +, writes (4 December 2008):
estanie is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyeah...there's this club called gay 90's in downtown mlps, mn...but there is still alot of straight girls there but i guess i will just have to hope and see if the right female is attracted to me
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reader, michele21 +, writes (27 November 2008):
hey well i don't know where you live but there is always gay clubs somewhere you just have to go find them theres more than you probably think...im a lesbian too its very hard and im girly so no one ever knows that i am that way and when i tell them they are shocked i hate going to straight clubs because guys hit on my constantly and its annoying and when i tell them im a lesbian there all like can i watch how pathetic....but i don't really know its gonna take time...and its hard to just meet them out and about because you never can tell sometimes which really sucks unless they are really butch....sorry wish i could be more help to you
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