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female
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41-50,
*stanie
writes:i haven't been with a women for about 5 years and want to get back in the dating scene. with my ex-girlfriends, i met them through friends. but how do i find a female these days without going to find them in nightclubs? for me, it's hard to find a female who is a straight lesbian and not just bi-sexual who wants me to join her and her boyfriend. and i'm more into females who has the girly look then butch. (urgh...it's sooo hard)
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reader, estanie +, writes (4 December 2008):
estanie is verified as being by the original poster of the question yeah...there's this club called gay 90's in downtown mlps, mn...but there is still alot of straight girls there but i guess i will just have to hope and see if the right female is attracted to me
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reader, michele21 +, writes (27 November 2008):
hey well i don't know where you live but there is always gay clubs somewhere you just have to go find them theres more than you probably think...im a lesbian too its very hard and im girly so no one ever knows that i am that way and when i tell them they are shocked i hate going to straight clubs because guys hit on my constantly and its annoying and when i tell them im a lesbian there all like can i watch how pathetic....but i don't really know its gonna take time...and its hard to just meet them out and about because you never can tell sometimes which really sucks unless they are really butch....sorry wish i could be more help to you
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