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writes:What do women seek out of a threesome or foursome in general? I think most men would go for it without much resistance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2011): I would enjoy more with 2 men than 2 woman
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reader, Swanson +, writes (16 March 2008):
Obviously all threesomes for both sexes offer the idea of experimentation and taboo to a degree, and hence can seem "thrilling" in that manner. It's also a manifestation of sexuality for purelu physical reasons, which can be a turnon to some. As far as women, I think the type of threesome is important. For an FFM threesome, I think that it allows women to flirt with the idea of bisexuality without being branded a lesbian, as on a whole women are less paranoid about that idea than men. Also many women like the idea of fulfilling the "ultimate fantasy" for males, which this type of threesome is.For a threesome with two men, I would think that the motivations are more purely physical, especially if the threesome does not involve the guys doing anything with each other (MFM as opposed to MMF I guess you could say), as this makes the woman the center of attention, and let's face it, women have plenty of erogenous zones to choose from. Also, the two girls that I know that have done this and have talked to me about it said that they were both turned on in the moment by the fact that they were able to get the guys to do things that they were inherently uncomfortable with - there was some empowerment and role reversal in that.Regardless of the type, a threesome is only going to be satisfying for people that are able to somewhat detatch emotion from sex, at least for the moment. By nature there is no way that there will be the intimacy that is present on one-on-one sex, so if you approach it looking for that, or under the notion that you are "sharing" the person of the other gender, you will most likely find this to be a bad experience.
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reader, Swanson +, writes (16 March 2008):
Obviously all three somes for both sexes offer the idea of experimentation and taboo to a degree, and hence can seem "thrilling" in that manner. It's also a manifestation of sexuality for purely physical reasons, which can be a turnon to some. As far as women, I think the type of threesome is important. For an FFM threesome, I think that it allows women to flirt with the idea of bisexuality without being branded a lesbian, as on a whole women are less paranoid about that idea than men. Also many women like the idea of fulfilling the "ultimate fantasy" for males, which this type of threesome is.For a threesome with two men, I would think that the motivations are more purely physical, especially if the threesome does not involve the guys doing anything with each other (MFM as opposed to MMF I guess you could say), as this makes the woman the center of attention, and let's face it, women have plenty of erogenous zones to choose from. Also, the two girls that I know that have done this and have talked to me about it said that they were both turned on in the moment by the fact that they were able to get the guys to do things that they were inherently uncomfortable with - there was some empowerment and role reversal in that.Regardless of the type, a threesome is only going to be satisfying for people that are able to somewhat detatch emotion from sex, at least for the moment. By nature there is no way that there will be the intimacy that is present on one-on-one sex, so if you approach it looking for that, or under the notion that you are "sharing" the person of the other gender, you will most likely find this to be a bad experience.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2008): The only three or foursome I've ever really wanted was all fantasy--there's no way I would want an actual one in reality. There's just too much to lose from self respect to worrying bout the the partner failing for some other in the mix to sexually transmited diseases. Too much to worry about to want the real thing, it's just porn thinking on the whole.
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (3 March 2008):
 Hi
Possibly a lot would. Ive never been with anyone that wanted anymore than myself though, infact the thought of sharing me with someone else, man or woman, turned them right off. So i dont know, because i too wouldnt want to bring a third party into my sexual relationship.
Prehaps people that are quite extrovert and particularly thrill seeking go for it more.
C xxxx
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