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writes:I got to know how you have been helping people sort out their problems and I believe by Gods Grace you will have a word for me on this case.I was on my way to an unknown destination and a man saw me an stopped and asked me where I was going to, I told him never mind. He said that God told him to stop and come back to pick me and I said okay but I'm not going to follow him. After a long talk, he insisted that I must go with him that God is still telling Him not to live me.I followed him and afterwards we became friends, he was treating me well and helped me to pray and sort some things out. He made me not to have friends he was so protective and he does not like to see me talk with any other men. He checks my phone and calls me more than 50 times any time I go out.But in all this I was still asking myself what this man wants from me. Because of all this I decided to travel to South Africa on his recomendation. After months pass he said I should come back. Most times he will introduce me as his wife while sometimes as his cousin. So many things happend any way, but now I found out that he knows all the ladies in the city and his friennds are mostly ladies. He sends to them emotional and love texts and all that. He told me that God said that I am not his wife that I am his friend but he will still careful be monitoring my movements. He will travel without telling me and am working in his office. Tell me aunts what I do so many will see me and call me his wife and him in my absent be telling them all the problem I told him that I was having when we met initially and at the same time ask them what he should do.Ijeoma
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2008): yes as warterloo says please message us to let us no you are safe xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2008): This man is a 'fraud'. He is using GOD's name in vain to 'use' you for his sexual pleasure and gratification. He will say all the right things and do aall the right deeds to enslave your mind, soul and body. Get away from him as quickly as you can. This will not be easy, but you must do this for your own saftey and well being.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2008): He sounds to me to be a controlling bloody fruit cake!! sorry, but this bloke isnt on the real planet earth and you need to break away from him as soon as you can. How old are you? Why do you need someone in your life like this? He tell you where to go, who to speak to etc! For goodness sake wake up, he is using you as a puppet and you are going along with it. You must realise that something is wrong or you wouldnt ask us the question. And why did he recommend that you travel to South Africa? Did you have to pick up drugs or something? Please get away from him now! No good can come of this and he isnt bothered at all about you. All this wife, cousin crap! You will end up as mad as him if you stay. Promise me you will get away and mail me to say that you have.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (3 March 2008):
 In Asia and Africa, there are mediums who pray or serve many Gods.
Some of these mediums are true but there are many mediums who prey on women , rape them or marry them and keep them as their sex slaves.
He is using God's name to cheat and trick women into having sex with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2008): This man sounds very crazy. I reccomend that you leave him as soon as possible and never look back. Change you phone number and name if you have to. Seriously, he sounds like a mentally unstable person. Not to scare you, but this man sounds like the kind of guy who could be a stalker or rapist or worse. He's trying to control who you talk to and where you go, and that's a very bad sign indeed. Please leave this man immediately for you own safety's sake!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2008): Hi Hunny
This man is not right hunny not at all!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You need to get away and stay away he is ill mentally hunny, (He could have schizophrenia) But whatever his problem he is not good for you and you could be in danger so please hunny get away from this man and be safe TAKE CARE OF YOU WITH LOVE AND PRAYERS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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