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writes:hey guys my close friend and i have been together since 5th grade but when i introduced her to a new friend of mine, and they totally bonded and right now i'm feeling replaced so everytime i see them feel anger growing inside me what should i do?
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reader, girl who has been replaced  +, writes (2 August 2016):
Don't worry my best friend had replaced me to someone who I had introduced her to. It breaks your heart and is tough to deal with at times. Just have hope and try to involve yourself as much as you can. It might not work but its a good try. I'm still going through the process. I was with my best friend and the girl today and they were holding hands and looked like they had fun. It is really tough but u will get through. Never say never xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2009): Im having the same problem with my best friend right now! I know exactly how you feel and weve been best friends for 9 years since before kindergarten!!! What I would do is tell her how you feel, then she knows exactly whats going on and will try to correct the problem.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2008): I know exactly how youre feeling i feel the exact same way its really hard to lose friends even harder to lose friends than boyfriends and the hardest thing is the fact that you werent good enough for them that they liked you till someone better came along. Dont give up you need to have a heart to heart with this person becuase you dont deserve this just be strong dont give up and dont let this friend push you around!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2008): Dont worry, ive been replaced many times.
It generally works out for the best, but the process really sucks.
Right now for example every single one of my best friends has replaced me. One for his new hobby, another for his girlfriend, another for a new friend and my other by his glorious life. All of them which have made no effort to even try to see me, or call me or spend any time with me.
But in the end its okay,
because friends change through out life, and i know it sucks, butim a realist, and thats just how life goes...
however, theres always that chance that youll be a lucky one and have a friend thats their with you your entire life.
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2008): Im having the same problem. When ever us 3 are around they always talk about funny things thats happend to them. I feel like saying do i really care. They had a sleepover together the other day. I invited one of my friends round for tea she said 'i dunno'. She could have told me that she couldn't because she was going to my other friends house. They hid the whole thing from me. My friend who i introduced everyone to has come in and broke up all my friendship groups.
My mums advice for me was to go with my other friends because they will soon realise how much they miss you. If that doesnt work try telling them how you feel.
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2008): Im having the same problem right now. My bestfriend has this boyfriend and shes chaning aq lot for him! She is acting like a total SLUT!!! She wears skirts all the time and i mean there's nothing wrong with that but she sits down and she opens her legs ALL the way!! And she has a new best friend and a new group!!
i think you should talk to ur friend!!! i think she will understand. dont worry about their new friendship they'll get tired of eachother soon.
i hope it goes well! i tried talking to my friend and she yelled at me im not gonna tell u sorry and i called her a bitch and walked away!! ha that bitch got what she deserves! haha her boy friend even hates her because she flirting with other guys!! ha im soo happy!!! but yeah u should really talk to ur friend!!
PS. avoid screaming or calling her a bitch!!
Good luck!! =]
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reader, confused... +, writes (4 March 2008):
confused... is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni have no objection to their being friends, but sometimes it makes me feel like she's been a longer friend than i have, and i don't like the way she influences my best friend's decisions!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2008): You should talk to her about it honey! It's normal to feel left out at some point during your school life, but this is mean of her and she can't just drop you when she wants. Let her know that you feel really pissed off (excuse me) that she's treating you like she can do what she likes with you. Make sure you dont just do everything she wants, show her that if she's replacing you just like that then she cant just expect everything to be great when she fancies it. It's mean. So put her back in her place! But this will pass, I can guarentee. Good luck! :]
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