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writes:my boyfriend gets mad at me alot because i always like go out with the girls and have a blast .. i never invite him because its like the girls niqht lol ladyz u understand wen i say girlsss Night!=].. but now ive stoped going almost completeing just for him.. but now he goes out alott.. i wanna tell him but i just duno.. wut should i do leave it alone? so i start going out alot again? ahhh =[ Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks to all the people that helped me with this question all your guys information was really useful to me n my boyfriendz cominq over today so im guna talk to him and let him no and you everyones advice and ill be back on layder and tell you what happen.. thank youh so much...
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2008): No matter who I was dating or for how long I ALWAYS made sure I made time for my friends and went out with them. Yeah one guy wasn't happy either but I didn't change cos of him. Guys come and go but friends...... are are always there for you no matter what happens. If this guy dumped you next week you know you will have your friends but if you start listening to this control freak you will have no one only him - thats never good!!!
It will start slowly by him controlling who and when you go out, then what you wear, what you drink, who you can talk to and eventually you will have no one - not even your family as he will cut all ties with everyone you know.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (4 March 2008):
 Tell him , you need your fun too.
It is like recharging your batteries .
If your batteries are low , it won't be fun for him too.
If you cannot go out , then he has to accompany you all the time and he should not go out with his friends.
Can he do that?
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (4 March 2008):
 did he leave it alone when you were going out? no - so why should you sacrifice your social life just to keep him happy? talk to him and tell him that you miss going out with the girls and that your going to start doing it more - maybe on the same nights that he goes out with the guys? or you could suggest having one night a week where you both do your own thing - be it stay in alone, stay in with friends or go out? if you both start suffocating eachother, you will just end up resenting it. couples need to sometimes separate to stay together. you need to be able to go out and do your own thing you know? if you want more help with this hun just email me xxx
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