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I have a very high libido, would having sex with my boss be a good idea? Do my desires make me... easy?

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Question - (3 March 2008) 7 Answers - (Newest, 28 May 2008)
A age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Omg

I really need help

I broke up with my bf about a month ago...thats another story.

basically i have a really REALLY high sex drive and i need sex!!!!

no amount of "self pleaseing" is working!!

and theres this guy at work

and me and him are absoloutly gagging for each other.

we were in the lift tonight

and he felt my boobs and we looked at each other for ages and became really close and brushed lips about to kiss but the lift came to the second floor and someone was waiting outside so we had to split quickly!

but he makes me so horny

i neeed sex im not joking

im going to go crazy if i dont have sex

the problem is, he's technically my boss. and stuff

do you think that if i slept with him stuff would change?

cause i know normally women get all emotionally involved wen they have sex with someone but i really wont!

does this make me a slag?

:(

is this a bad idea?

should i go for it?

thanks for your help

:( xx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2008):

Your fantasies are your own, as are your needs. But however some companies have a policy against coleagues having relationships with each other. Think about if you did have sex with this person... afterwards you could get emotionally attatched, or even [in a few cases I have heard of] they could start blackmailing you... to be honest I don't think this is a situatuion you want to et into. I think the best thing may be to stay away, but again it's your choice. Good Luck xxx

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A male reader, JTalbott United States +, writes (28 May 2008):

JTalbott agony auntI smell a fantasy question.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2008):

Sex is Great but not with the boss no good will come from that, you are better off choosing a complete stranger or an understanding friend to get your rocks off........

Your DESIRES ARE PERSONAL, IF YOU SLEEP WITH ANYONE AT WORK THEY NO LONGER WILL BE PRIVATE, EVERYONE WILL KNOW AND YOU WILL BE SO EMBARRASSED YOU WILL HAVE TO LEAVE YOUR JOB, BE SENSIBLE AND ALOURING NOT EASY.

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A male reader, Collaroy Australia +, writes (4 March 2008):

Collaroy agony auntHi,

try and resist sex with the boss, I imagine he's probably married?

How about drinks after work with your colleagues. I have seen many a good session with young colleagues pairing off. If you are up for it you won't have any trouble finding someone to help you out!

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A female reader, xapathyxrebornx United Kingdom +, writes (4 March 2008):

xapathyxrebornx agony auntSex with the boss and in work is not a good idea!

He could use you and then fire you if you do adn hes had his fill...follows mandys advice and find someoene...=]

message me if you want to talk x

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A female reader, Dawnie United Kingdom +, writes (3 March 2008):

Dawnie agony auntNo having sex with your boss is not really a good idea. All that will happen is you will be known as an easy ride and that is nothing to be proud of and could also put your job in jeopardy. Be patient and wait until you find the right fella, it will be worth it in the end.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2008):

Hi Hunny

I really feel for you but no it may make things so difficult at work and I mean unbearable in the end a QUICK SHAG WITH THE BOSS!!!!!NO! Go to anne summers and buy out the shop untill you find someone not so close you work with, They have a supper rabit on the net advertised use him for now love, Your boss may talk and you could get this name that you really wouldnt want from 9-5 or whatever hrs you work hunny emotionally attached or not Im saying this with kindness and caring love ok TAKE CARE WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

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