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writes:i don't really know how to start this question but hear goes,basically i am 16 and i have recently just lost my virginity i have been with my boyfriend for 2 months and i don't really enjoy sex with him, i enjoy the build up the touching, his hands wondering etc but i don't actually enjoy it while werre having it. The only thing i can enjoy is the satisfaction he gets from it. I'd love it to end and us both be like wow that was amazing but i just can't. Please Help !!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2008): I dont mean this to sound patronising so take it as you will.....
I think it is your age. I can honestly say I didnt learn to enjoy sex until I was about 19. I had it and as you said I really enjoyed the satisfaction from the other party and to an extent I think I thought that was what was ment to satisfy me.
I think as you get more comfortable with exploring each other and when he gains an interest in satisfying you (which again men dont tend to do until they mature a bit or have long term intentions) then you learn what you like, how and where you like it and only then is it enjoyable.
Your not abnormal in any way, I hope all girls experience realisation that they are not gettin enough from sex, it would solve some of the sorry situations out there!
At least I can give you hope that it does get better - and the best is yet to come for you!
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reader, SexKitten69 +, writes (3 March 2008):
 Hi Hunn,
I totally agree with Mandy7, take time out to 'explore' on yourself and once you've found the things that you like show your b/f, he would prob love that !
Take Care, Please Rate :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2008): Hi Hunny
Im sending you a link love, You may need to explore your body a little.. To get to no your own body is important so you no what you like and the feelings that make you feel good hope the link helps hunny
http://www.teenwire.com/ask/2007/as-20070423p1488-sex.php
TAKE CARE WITH LOTS OF LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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