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I dunno what to think, am I being used? Am I right not to give up on him?

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Question - (3 March 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 March 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi

Well, for about 3 years I've been talking to a guy on msn.

We got on so well, and he told me he liked me but I was wrapped up with other boys and I overlooked him.

But we started talking again, and we got to the point where both of us told each other we liked the other.

I sneaked out to his house one night, and we spent the night together, no sex, but still it was amazing. We've been in touch by text and msn since but he works really long hours through the night, like 6pm till 6 am and has no time for much else, so i havent seen him since. He told me over text he wants an 'us' and told me not to give up on him.

But, he doesn't text me first bar once, always me texting him but he always replies. I dunno what to think, am I being used? Am I right not to give up on him?

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A female reader, xapathyxrebornx United Kingdom +, writes (4 March 2008):

xapathyxrebornx agony auntI think you should be careful and take things slow =]

I cant tell if hes using you from this though. It depends, is he selfish towards you. Does he not let you get what you want and only want what he wants from you?

thats how you think about it x

message me if you want to talk x

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A male reader, pipgib United Kingdom +, writes (4 March 2008):

Talk to him and tell him how you feel, tell him that you want more than just sending texts and msn if he shows any reluctance to move the relationship forward it may be time to move on and find someone else

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