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writes:Hi guys,i'm in a big big problem... I love a girl and she's my friend... but when i told her about my feelings she said keh though i really really like you but not this, but as a friend...but i'm not even one of her normal friends...i'm not allowed to call her...we can't meet often and for long time as she thinks it affects her image...all we do is sms or talk on the net...but i really love her...and i want to marry her...but she says it's not possible. I don't know wat to do... this is not even a normal friendship... plzzz help me out, she really means alot to me and i can live without her. Reply to this Question
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reader, AkasunaNoSasori  +, writes (3 March 2008):
 Sorry to say this but if she can't appreciate you for who you are, then she isn't worth your time. Don't bother with her anymore, you deserve much better!
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reader, duskyrowe  +, writes (3 March 2008):
 Who the hell does she think she is? She is treating you like an accessory not a human being, its like she trying to co-ordinate you with her like a handbag with a pair of shoes.
Please do not waste any of your precious time with this shallow, vain, Prima Donna bitch, and find someone who will be proud to have you as her boyfriend. OMG I have never heard such crap in all my life, "you will damage my image. I am surprised you have not told her to F**k off and stop being in contact with you. With friends like her I would rather have my enemies. Dusky xxx.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (3 March 2008):
 She is not ready for marriage yet.
You need to put off that marriage thought.
Continue to talk or sms to her for now.
Don't push her, allow her to walk at her pace.
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reader, SexKitten69 +, writes (3 March 2008):
 Hi Hunn,I know that it's hard loving someone that doesn't love you back but unfortunately there is nothing that you can do about that, you can't make somebody love you!I think that you would be much better without this person in your life! If i were you i would not talk to her anymore and try to avoid her, maybe then if she does like you she will come after you.Just concentrate on having a good time with your life, there's no point in stressing about this girl as she isn't important enough.Take Care, Please Rate :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2008): I feel your pain, but how can you say you love her and want to marry her? You dont know her and judging by what you have said, she doesnt want you to know her either. Why not get away from the computer and get out there with your friends and meet someone who is real, available and able to love you back. You deserve to be with someone, so stop wasting time and energy on what i see as a virtual person. Not real and certainly not available.
take care
xx
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (3 March 2008):
 Hi
She's not girlfriend material for you let alone marriage material.
Why would you be chasing someone thats not interested. And she doesnt want to be seen in public with you?
Are you sure you really need to ask this question?
It doesnt really make much sense. The way it reads is, you want to convince her to get with you, even though shes embarrassed of you????? What kind of partner would that make her? :o?
C xxxxxx
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