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He's with another girl now, but I think I love him... could he feel the same?

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Question - (3 March 2008) 7 Answers - (Newest, 4 March 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I like a guy from work, but recently he was in a car accident with his girlfriend, she drove off the end of a cliff, and he was really hurt. Despite my efforts to get over to the hospital to see him i couldn't manage it before he got discharged, but then he went back to his hometown with his parents for 2 weeks and he's coming back today for a works meeting, it'll be the first time i've seen him since before the accident. On few occasions we've had sexual contact, this was when he was single. But on another occasion i did have intercourse with him, i felt really bad because he had a girlfriend. I'm not sure how his relationship is going at the moment whether the accident is brought them closer or not. I finally admitted to myself that i like him. I'm really nerveous out the meeting :(

Any tips on how tp make conversation?

Does you think he likes me at all?

Guys point of view please.

Xoxoxoxoxox

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2008):

I am really amazed at girls all the time. I know you wonut like this but, there are plenty of amazing guys out there that are single. A few months ago, I broke up with a girl I was with for 8 months. I decided not to let it get me down and to find a new girl I enjoyed being with right away. It took 4 months, with alot of girls I knew had been interested not giving me the time of day. Now I have a new girlfriend and we are having a blast. Now the same girls who couldn't be bothered, suddenly are pressing their numbers into my hand and telling me to call them.

Stop chasing guys who are happy with another girl and being miserable yourself. Just because you see happiness, don't let some other girl you envy, screen your next boyfriend fr you. Pick a nice guy, not some overconfident jerk or ass, and take a chance. You might just be surprised and find a guy who will treat you great!

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A female reader, SexKitten69 United Kingdom +, writes (3 March 2008):

SexKitten69 agony auntHi Hunn, sorry i meant dont think to much about how to act or what to say whenever you see him next

xxxx

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A female reader, TELLULAH United Kingdom +, writes (3 March 2008):

TELLULAH agony auntAt the moment you are just guessing. But asking how he is when you see him would not be crossing the line with his girlfriend (if he still has one).

Was she hurt in the accident, you could always ask how she is, to test his reaction. They must have been through an awfull lot together. So if they are happy then move on and find someone free.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2008):

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Thank ypu very much, however sexkitten69 i think i've thought about it to much already, it's driving me crazy not knowning whether he likes me or not, there's a flirty relationship but i don't know :S

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2008):

If he has a gf then stay on the sideline and just ask how he is. Dont expect anymore.

take care

xx

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A female reader, jaq Ireland +, writes (3 March 2008):

jaq agony aunthe maybe does you wont know till you ask, it wouldnt be fair on his girlfriend to be in the middle of it and not know

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A female reader, SexKitten69 United Kingdom +, writes (3 March 2008):

SexKitten69 agony auntHi HUnn,

You know that you should just be yourself around him! But make sure to tell him that you were thinking of him in hospital, that way it hints to him that you still hold something for him, tell him u tried to get to see him but couldnt quite make it.

Dont think about things (about him coming back) otherwise you will just get nervous, go with the flow

Take Care, Please Rate :)

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