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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hey everyone- I don't know why but when I am extremely attracted to someone, I kind of confuse lust with love. I start getting attached, can't stop thinking about them, etc. etc, and the worst part is, I don't even know them! (They're usually a friend). I get attached very easily and it is all based on looks. I'm trying to stop thinking like this, I know it's very immature. Any suggestions?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2008): Try and step back and look at the whole person, not just the looks. Are they funny and witty. Do they genuinely have a caring nature and happy. Try and look behind the looks. Because someone can have a gorgeous face but be an ugly person. I learned that a long time ago and it is true. The good lookers can turn out to be right pigs.
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