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writes:am going out with somebody currently he is good friends with my exi just recently realised i think i love my ex and i dont think i like my boyfriend in tht way :Si was the one to break up with him.people say he still likes me still but he would never do anything to hurt my current boyfriend cause they are quite good mates...i am soo confused :(
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reader, always.you  +, writes (11 January 2008):
 yes there is if he has feelings for you and you have feelings for him then you should go for it but hang out with him alot more to make sure you really do have feelings then talk to him about it and your boyfriend might not understand at first but if he really cares about you he will want you to be happy
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reader, theoneyoucancounton... +, writes (11 January 2008):
 oh dear, that is always the way!you never realize you truely love someone until there truely gone. and the fact that their good mates doesn't help at all!really i think you need to talk to the guy you love and explain to him that you love him not your current boyfriend and once you know how he truely feels that is when your heart will know what to say to your current boyfriend. If you really don't have those kind of feelings for you current boyfriend then tell him, theres nothing worse than a relationship without meaning. Just explain to him the facts and that you will always be good friends you just think you will make better friends than boyfriend and girlfriend, failing that why don't you show him this letter? trust that he will understand and be ok with itbest of luck ask phoebe
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2008): Heya, I think this is deffinitely up to you but you do need to take into consideration the reasons why you broke up with him before and if he def feels the same way for you. Maybe talk to him? You need to think deeply about who u feel most for because if its nt your current boyfriend then thers no point persuing it because a relationship is supposed to be enjoyable for the both of u plus its unfair leading him on. I think u need to find out how much u want to be with your current boyfriend and then break up with him before making any further decisions about your ex. Hope thats helped? Good luck x
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