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writes:This may sound like a stupid question but I just started school and at one of my classes there is this really cute guy I saw. He saw me too. I know he likes me too. Anyways, there was cute guys in the entire class. I was smitten. The only problem is that I don't really like the class and was even considering dropping it. But I have found it so hard to meet or even see guys that I like at school. And then I go to this one class and there were so many cute guys. I don't know if I shoud stay in the class so that I can meet cute guys or if I should drop it and take a class that I will actually like and lose my chance of meeting cool guys. Confused. P.S. Its my last semester at college so I would like to end with a 4.0 or close to it. And this class is very interesting, the reason I don't like it is because it is based on research papers and loads of readings and I hate both, so I would have to work alot harder to get an A. The other class I would take is a guaranteed A. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2008): I assume you're at school to learn rather than find romance.
A guaranteed 'A' probably doesn't take quite so much effort as one you have to work at. If you get an 'A' in a difficult subject I'd say it was worth more than the easy one to any future employer.
You're unlikely to do well in any chosen subject if your mind is being continally distracted by cute guys!
Phil
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reader, eddie  +, writes (10 January 2008):
 Don't worry about the guys. They are still there whether you take the class or not. You said one even noticed you already. Strike up a conversation with him and then drop the class. You've made your connection and go from there. Maybe there will be guys in the other class you'd take. Don't make your life difficult.
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