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*ove Never Runs Smoothly
writes:I really really love my teacher. Im almost 15 and shes married and 26. I have loved her since Feb 2007. Everytime i try to get over her it makes it even harder, and i was so convinced that she liked me that i told her how i felt and i acted on it and now the whole school knows, and so do all the teachers. I was even threatened to move schools. I just dont know what to do? Can anyone please give me some advice? I dont know how much longer i can go on like this.
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reader, classic  +, writes (20 January 2009):
I know how it feels, im in love with a teacher from my school, he is not really my teacher but he is gorgeous!! im 17 and hes 28 hes in a realtion right now but is not married or anything.. He stares at me constantly and looks at me from head to toe. He knows i like him beacuse is very obvious! he tries to talk to me and be near me and im not the only one who noticed it, but im pretty sure he doesnt say anything to me beacuse hes scared and im scared of telling him, but i have my hopes up. and i know that when i graduate i have a big chance with him!
In your case i think you should let her go because shes married and everyone knows so she can get in a lot of trouble for that.
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reader, Starry Meadow +, writes (11 January 2008):
I believe you when you say you're in love.
But, maybe to avoid being mocked or hurt, you should trade schools. I can't even imagine how much this hurts, but you should consider transfering if things get bad, even if you still love her.
Don't let it get you down though, you're still young, you're gonna find a good person for sure.
Another bit of advice, if it's possible say you're sorry to her (if she was hurt by this) and try talking to her and explaining. If it's not, then just leave her be,move foward, and don't ever be ashamed of how you felt. ^__^
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reader, Crisy  +, writes (10 January 2008):
 Mabye you need to get interested in girls your own age. It might not be such a bad idea moving schools. Well whatever you decide to do good luck sweeti x
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2008): wait a min, no dont move schools, i mean cmon u love a teacher, theres many popl on this site that do, including me but i would never switch schools to get away from him as i believe that he is making my skl years better =]
it makes skl more fun when u actually have a reason other than learning, i mean this guy is hot!!! lol and the after shave he was wearing today- yum! but basically look, if the other kids are being really cruel to you like bullyin you and stuff then think of movin as an option but dont run away from this prob, coz wht happens say, u fall in love with a teacher in the new skl u go to i mean u gonna move from there aswell, even still when u move away ull still think about her, youll still love her, itll take a long time to get over her, seriously if the other kids are gettin too mean then yeah consider moving but if they arent really doing anything then dont run away from a suituation tht isnt tht big a deal- mail me anytime
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jst reply bk on your question to me and ill leave u my actual dear cupid account =]
i couldnt b bothered signin in thts all lol :P
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2008): At your age i doubt you know what love really is. I thought i did but was evedently wrong. Love is mutual, respectful and sharing. She has made her feelings clear. Try counsiling and moving on find a girl your age even if it is not through school. If you really can't face it switch schools and start afresh. Good Luck xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2008): Oh gosh hunny, my heart goes out to you. This is really awful situation, If it were just teachers who knew then it wouldn't be too bad I suppose... but with all the pupils knowing aswel. I cannot imagine what you're going through! I agree with the previous posts, I think moving school will stop all of this pain. However its hard to leave, when you're so in love with your teacher. Try talking to your parents, see what they can suggest! All my love xx
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (10 January 2008):
 You would be doing yourself a huge favor by switching schools. Check into it immediately.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (10 January 2008):
 If you really cannot take it , then you need to change school to be away from her. You could go for counseling.
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