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writes:My friend and I were very close for a long time and one day we felt in love.. We started dating and things were great after that.. We had ups and downs like any other relationships.. One day he just left.. I don't know what went wrong.. He refuses to talk to me.. It's like he doesn't exist anymore.. I tried finding him but I couldn't.. Even our other friends couldn't reach him.. I'm so depressed.. I even started to hate him.. But yet I love him so much and I missed him.. My friends say I should move one but I really can't forget him..
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reader, xylplxym  +, writes (12 January 2008):
Well he must of done something terrible to go to such lenghts to avoid you now.
But anyway, i do think you ought to move on. Its unfortunate what happened but whats more unfortunate is just how quickly you will find yourself forgetting him.
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reader, duskyrowe  +, writes (10 January 2008):
 Samurai Rick is right, this jerk did not have the balls to call closure on this relationship so he took the coward's way out and is giving you the silent treatment. Take it from a wise old owl like me, go out there and start having fun with your friends and take a backseat from the dating scene for a while until you get this guy completely out of your system. Go to the Mall with your friends and do some serious retail therapy; or catch a movie, anything to take your mind off him. Its his loss that he is no longer in your life not yours, please do not waste anymore tears on this prat, he is simply not worth it my dear.
You are still young and still have plenty of time to find your Mr Right, trust me on that one. Then when your Prince Charming does sweep you off your feet, you will not give this so called man a second thought. As the saying goes, It is better to have loved and lost than not to have loved at all. Keep your chin up darling and hold your head up high. Good luck for the future and please let me and my fellow cupids know how you are getting on. Love Dusky xxx
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reader, SamuraiRick +, writes (10 January 2008):
 What he did was just cruel. I don't know why some people resort to this form of breakup which i call the "silent" breakup. Its where they dont answer their phone won't return calls and just plain avoid you as a way of saying its over. I would rather you go up to my face and tell me its over. And its hard because you're just left wondering what happened. the hurt you feel is more prolonged trying to figure out why they arent calling you back. It's like death by torture.
Yes, I feel you should move on and try to try to heal yourself from his breakup.....that is what this is. You're going to be ok.
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