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writes:Hey, well I really need help here. I'm dating this guy and he's a 2 years older than me. I'm a sophmore and he's a senior. We where good friends, and did alot of the same stuff like with church and sports. Well he finaly asked me out on a date. It was just a tipickle date. Dinner and then we went and saw a scary movie. Well it was different. I mean I have been on a bunch of dates like it before but everytime I tried to talk to him butterflies filled my throat and I couldn't breathe. I couldn't pay attentoin to the movie and everytime he looked at me I thought I was going to shreik with excitement. We have been bf and gf for 3 months and I really think this could be the guy. And I know your all thinking well your only 16 and only been dating for 3 months so don't jump to conclusoins, but I don't know I can't explain it he's like perfect for me. But heres the deliama. Well first the entire age thing, and I know 2 years isn't big but he's 18 and im 16 and we're not physical. like he will kiss me and stuff but nothing more and I don't want us to be for a while and i've talked to him about it and he agrees.But what do I don when he goes to college? I will miss him so much and don't know what to do. He said that becasue we really love each other it will work out somehow plz help. Thanks. Advise? Suggestoins. I will not brake up with him and thats what my friends suggested, but I can't. His college is only 2 hours away so maybe I could visit and vice versa. Reply to this Question
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reader, Chowder  +, writes (12 January 2008):
 Judging from what you wrote about sharing activities like church with him, I'm going to guess that you're both Christians? In that case, I strongly believe you two should try the whole long-distance thing - dating even though he's away at college. I understand that it's going to be hard, but from where I live, my friends who are dating younger/older people are usually SEAS apart from their partners, and some are still going strong after a whole year away from each other! God creates miracles; perhaps you and your boyfriend should give long-distance-dating a chance and let God decide the rest. After all, you think he's "the One", right? If this is meant to be, you two will be together for a very, very long time.
Good luck! =)
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (11 January 2008):
 You don't have to break up with him because he is moving to college..You can still keep in contact with him.You need to be aware that in college he will meet other girls and he may change.You may also change .That is a real probability .
If your love is strong or he is meant for you , he will remain true to you .No one knows what will happen in the future. Enjoy today and let tomorrow take care of itself.
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