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writes: Hello. I'm 13, and I really like this guy I've known him since I was in kindergarden, but I don't know if he likes me, even as a friend anymore. We used to be to txt all the time but ever since my 13th. birthday he's been acting wierd. I had a huge pool party( for my b-day.) and I invited him. We had alot of fun and he was the last guy to leave before he left he asked," Katie?" And I answered " Yeah?" He just stared at me them ran off. He's not talked to me since that day and when he does its always " Katie." And I always answer " yeah." Well lately it not like he saying my name its like he's asking a questoin. Like if he doesn't recongnise me. I'm really worried becasuae everytime he seas me he looks like he's confused. Did I do something wrong or are we just growing apart. Goodness guys are confusing!Help please. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2008): You are young and these things happen. Just accept that you did nothing wrong and stop worrying about it. Have a lovely life!
take care
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reader, xylplxym  +, writes (12 January 2008):
Yes, i agree that love, especially at that age, makes us guys rather dumb and cowardly. And now since it seems that he failed many times to express himself he might be angry and fustrated with himself. So, be patient of course and i would suggest you respond with his name next time not just "yeah". Seeing as how he is a sensitive guy, it wouldn't hurt to make your response a little more personal rather than one that can be misconstrued as impatience. Good luck and dont let your friendship end just because of something simple like this.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (12 January 2008):
 This guy is probably lovesick for you .He could not bring himself to utter out his feelings and it is stuck in his throat.
He is afraid of the consequences and whether you may reject him. When a boy is in love, he will feel timid and afraid of saying the wrong things to the girl. He becomes tongue tied and dumb...
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2008): Katie, honey, you did not do anything wrong, if you two have known each other since kindergarden, he is almost like a brother to you....now that the two of you are reaching the awkward puberty stage, your friendship may go through some awkward moments as well, both of your bodies are changing and this might be a bit weird for him to handle, remember, boys mature more slowly than girls do...so just be patient with him and don't get mad at him for running off, just give him plenty of space, and he will be back to his old self in no time...
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reader, Neboraic  +, writes (11 January 2008):
Theres not much i can say on this one, its a mystery. On the bright side you still have his attention, the worst situation is when the person you like stops forgets you exist. This guy is well aware you exist. The best thing to do is to get some conversation going. It may take some effort since he is acting strange but you might be able to get things back to normal. And if they don't, then somethings changed and now he likes you, or he doesn't like you. You'll have to analyze his expressions and words to figure out which.
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reader, theoneyoucancounton... +, writes (11 January 2008):
 i remember being that age and i remember how it feels to really like them and to not know what they feel! it is frustrating!it sounds to me as if at your party he wanted to ask you something? whether it be asking you out or another personal question only he can answer.May be this guy inside likes you as much as you like him, and that is why he is confused?i don't think you have grown apart by what you are saying however you could end up losing him over this. Why don't you just sit down with him alone and ask him about iti know it's a scary thing and i want you to know my thoughts r with u when u do itbest of luckAsk phoebe
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