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Am I Bi or not?

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Question - (10 January 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 January 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Ok, I am in my 20's now and I am a single mom. I love being with men (only been with 2 so I am not a hoe) but for a long time i have found myself attracted to women. I love the upper body but as far as the lower part I find it gross even mine. I am curious to kiss a girl but at the same time I am afraid. I know part of this is because I am divorced and he was my everything. There isn't anyone I would be interested in but I am just trying to find myself. I did talk to my ex about this and he doesn't think I am bi or anything he said he thought it was innocent just a human attraction. Any ideas??

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2008):

Only you can decide what you are. If I were you, I would just not label yourself. Just let yourself live. If you fall in love with a woman, you fall in love with a woman. If you fall in love with a man, you fall in love with a man. Don't be afraid of your sexuality; Embrace it.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (10 January 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntYou do have bisexual feelings but you have not acted on them.You have strong inhibitions that is holding you back.

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