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writes:I really need your help here women!I know we men love to hear few things during sex such as moaning of the woman, complimenting our tool size, or how good it feels inside....but what about women?What do women love to hear during sex? I would love to hear from women here...I mean i know that they love to hear love words, but any other sex related comments or words that turns women on during sex?Thank you in advance, Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2008): Women are all different but I personally love to hear a man say the same types of things you said you liked to hear. I don't like total silence but I also don't think sex is the time for talk about love and emotion. I get turned on a lot more when guys make noise and tell me how it feels inside me and I also like when they ask if I like what they are doing and let me know they like what I'm doing....hope that helps!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (12 January 2008):
 Most women want to feel loved , appreciated and being beautiful in their partner's eyes.During the initial play acting and fore play , words spoken liberally will set her up for the romantic mood.
Once the hot actions start, there is no need for words or dirty talk. Not all women like that.For some,her mind is not all into the sex. Some women would multi task while making love. She worries if the door is locked or not ,whether you are making too loud a sound. She worries about the other problems while you are doing it and she cannot be fully into the sex act.
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reader, Serinity  +, writes (10 January 2008):
 I'm not sure if you were addressing me as far as the "dirty talk" question or not, but if you were, I classify the first example I wrote as dirty talk. I think the "average" woman would fall into the second example. It depends on how reserved or NOT reserved your wife may be. Does she talk dirty to you? If not then I would definitely say she is more reserved and I wouldn't freak her out with the first example. I think the second example would probably work well with most women.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2008): if you wanna actually talk to a girl during sex tell her how good she looks or how sexy she is cos most girls are really insecure about that x
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2008): Thank you for these great replies, and the best of it is that it came from women!
LJ001...I loved your reply...very detailed and straight to the point, but what do you mean by dirty talk? I mean to what limit? She is my wife and the mother of my 4 children, so I wonder what the average women would love to hear from dirty talk?
Thank you all again!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2008): Us women love being told how beautiful we are, how much you love us and a man who is caring and thoughtful. Why do mn like to hear women moaning is it some sort of primeval, animal thing? Goodluck
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reader, Serinity +, writes (10 January 2008):
I think it depends on the girl. If you are having sex with a girl who tends to be more open and exotic then a little bit of dirty talk along with compliments goes a long way. Such as: Damn, you are so sexy and beautiful and you have the hottest, tightest, sweetest p___y ever and I love the way my c___k feels inside of you. Now, if you are having sex with a more reserved/shy girl then I would recommend more compliments than dirty talk. Such as: You are so beautiful and you drive me crazy. I could make love to you all day and night. You make me feel so good and I love making love to you.Something to that affect. Of course that's just my opinion. Hope it helps!
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reader, -NothingLasts4ever-  +, writes (10 January 2008):
 I personally love it when my boyfriend whispers i love you in my ear when we have sex... But some people might not like that.Other people like it if you say their name when you have sex... it shows that you know who you're having sex with and she's not just some random stranger you picked up off the street =]But it varies with different people so you know...3
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2008): I've never had sex before! But being a woman myself, I'd probably be turned on by the moaning of the man, as men like in women. But as for words, just comliment the woman on her beauty and standard during intercourse. Hope i've helped!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2008): I can guarentee that for women, when you've both got undressed, a man telling her that she's beautiful is the most amazing thing you could ever tell her. She'll be more confident, and feel sexy - and you have to feel sexy to give your best sex. And guess what? When she gives her best sex, you'll enjoy it more too.
However, this probably wouldnt turn her on, as such.
As a woman, I like it when my partner groans while giving me oral. It proves that he's enjoying it too. Also, talking dirty to her will turn her on, and make her more excited. If you notice her orgasm-ing, tell her how much you love it when she orgasms with her pussy in your mouth. Tell her how hot she is, or how much you 'love being up her'.
But to be honest, I think one of the key things is telling her she's beautiful. This, in my opinion, is the key to great sex - as she will feel sexy and confident because of it.
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