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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why do long term relationships end?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

21 February 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, Andy00 here. First, I want to suggest that nobody here answer this question if they think that they will just be opening up old wounds. Most of you know that my long distance relationship (2 years) disbanded (she dumped me) almost 8 months ago. I have since been wi... (268 words)

Am I being too immature?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

21 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi! I have posted earlier about my ex bf of 2.5 years and how he cheated the whole time. We live in different cities and these days I find myself getting mad at all our mutual friends back there - they hang out like everything is normal, go clubbing etc. I would like them to ... (230 words)

I'm in hell right now, and I don't know what to do to make things right.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

21 February 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm 35 and have been in a relationship with my 22 year old girlfriend for 3 years.... until about 4 weeks ago. We have a 9 month old daughter. I really want her back. I love her more than anything but my actions in the past have been my undoing... not paying her enoug... (262 words)

How long do I have to wait for oral?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

21 February 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 years - He has yet to finger fuck me or perform oral -I know it is not a problem with me cause other guys have loved to do it for me - He says he loves me but doesn't have to prove it that way - I say he is wrong and it makes me ... (92 words)

It is taking me hours to get to sleep at night because I can't stop thinking about him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6117 days ago

21 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, Please help! I'm a student and I live away from my boyfriend of 8 months, although we get to see each other every six weeks. I have known him for six years and we became lovers after I broke up with his best friend. My problem however is unrelated. I cannot stop ... (495 words)

What are the erogenous zones a women has?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

21 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, what are the erogenous zones women have? i know the G-spot, but what others are there .... i think that there are 7? thankyou h xxx ... (31 words)

I can't get the fact that she went to a 'naked party' out of my head.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

21 February 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm having a real problem getting my girlfriend's past out of my head. I know there have been some other questions like this on the board, but nothing that really matches. Basically, I've been dating a wonderful woman for three months. She's amazing in just about every wa... (411 words)

Are these acts considered sex??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6113 days ago

21 February 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - What is considered "sex"? For instance if the Male and female are in the US but the male is 18 and the female is 17 and the female gives, for lack of better words a "hand job" would that be illegal and considered "Sex"? and the 2nd question would be: If the male "fingers" the ... (82 words)

I just wish we could make it work when we are together because I have never loved somebody so much.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5993 days ago

21 February 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Since the first day i set my eyes on her i've been in love wit her its now been 6 years since we first met and i still love her. We've been through phases were we have been together but it always ends badly and when we are not together we are really good friends. I just wis... (112 words)

Why won't he talk about his ex??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

21 February 2008 (F)

- Hey, Theres this guy who for the past three months I have grown quite close to we both really like one another but we are taking it slow. Recently I asked him about his ex and why they seperated.. He asked me who told me about her to which I replied no-one. I was infact jus... (110 words)

I love him but he is making things hard!! what do I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

21 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my bf is everything to me, and i love it when he enjoys doing something that he is really interested in. but he doesnt get up to go to school and he was supposed to graduate 2 years ago. he is very smart! he was failing every class and when the graduations tests came, me made ... (165 words)

Any suggestions, why she doesn't tell all?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

21 February 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend and I have been together for over 4 years now. In the beginning I was told she was divorced , that I was the first guy she had been with , she had several dates but nothing else. It would never bothered me even if she had been with others because that was before ... (213 words)

He never says "I love you", not even to our daughter.....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

21 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Can a marriage survive this way? We've been married for only 5 months, and we have a 10 month old daughter, and I am due again next month. We love eachother, and have known eachother for a long time. The thing is that there is no intimacy in our relationship. We don't say I ... (278 words)

He works a lot and I feel neglected. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6117 days ago

21 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating this guy for more than 1 yr.. and i was always happy with him. i always felt he treated me good. had some few problems but then no relationship is perfect. for some time though i have been feeling a little insecure about his feelings for me because hes alwa... (481 words)

I love my second cousin, should I tell him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

21 February 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I'm in love with this really great guy. I mean, he's a lot taller than me, he's smarter than me (I don't know many guys who are), he's pretty good looking, is generally a nice guy except for when he gives people a hard time, and can basicly turn me into a house-trained puppy ... (194 words)

How should I handle her and her male friend??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6117 days ago

21 February 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - My question is why does my girlfriend feel the need to talk to another male friend? She told me about him in the beginning(somewhat). Over the past 4 years I have seen more and more of their conversations. Even though she has told me there's nothing between the two of them by ... (113 words)

Breakup out of nowhere. Need advice please!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

21 February 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok so ive been with the same girl for the last 8 months. We are both in our twenties. I had recently come back from a military deployment and saw her a few times before i left for leave which was about a week. She couldnt come with me because of work and some other issues. ... (319 words)

Why does my girlfriend feel the need to talk to another male friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

21 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - have a question about orgasms. How can my bf help me have an orgasm? How can I help him to have one? Is it possible for either or us to have more than one? I would love it if we both had one at the same time. Is this possible? Regarding sex positions and orgasms. Are there ... (91 words)

Are there some other types of kisses we can try?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

21 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a question regard different types of kissing. Sometime kissing with my bf can get pridictable. Are there some other types of kisses we can try? Are there places on the body that we may enjoy kissing? Are there some types of kisses that my bf could try on my breasts? ... (127 words)

I kissed him, now she's threatening me, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

21 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I kissed this guy i know from school but had never spoken to before last thursday and saturday when out at a club. On thursday we kissed once in the club and then all the way home in the taxi (he lives near me and there were others in the car too). Then on saturday, he arrived ... (522 words)

Is there anything I can do about my fetish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

21 February 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Reposted as I think accidently clicked 'unsubscribe from answers to this question'... Hi, I am a 24 year old male from England. I am quite a good looking lad and don't really have any problem getting the girls, the only problem is I am confused as to what turns me on at t... (543 words)

Should I tell him what she said or not??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

21 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I was on myspace and one of my friends sent me a message that my boy friends ex had written saying that Corey (my bf) was telling her how he loved me but loved her more than me. But when I confronted him about it he just said his cousin was the one texting him telling her that ... (123 words)

I have never been able to open up to anyone like I can my friend but don't think I am gay. What can I do??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

21 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 24 and mormon.......I never have been attracted to women in any way. Over the past couple months I have begun hanging out with this girl who is also mormon. We had been casual friends for about a year but then found out we had tons in common and have been graduall... (148 words)

My friend was sexually assaulted when drunk at a party, her boyfriend did not witness the incident and is incredulous. What should I do to help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

21 February 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I was speaking to my best friend the other day (we are VERY close, she is like my sister) and she told me that at a party she was at on saturday (which I was unble to attend due to a holiday) she was very drunk and some guy (who was also very drunk) stuck his hands down the ... (280 words)

What are the chances of pregnancy if she took the pill behindhand?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6110 days ago

21 February 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend had sex on valentines day. She takes the pill but the day after valentines day she took the pill very late and took it about 6pm She's still on the pill but now she is starting to feel sick and ill. Could she be pregnant? What are the chances ... (80 words)

We have small children and tiring jobs, and do not afford a babysitter. How to escape routine?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

21 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I think my husband and I are getting burned out on the "daily grind". My husband does hard physical labor and I am an office manager of a busy/fast paced construction company. We have 2 small children so our evenings consist of cooking, cleaning and taking care of the kids. ... (95 words)

I asked her what she thinks of us and she said she lost the spark, but still likes me, only not as much. Any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

21 February 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I've been in a relationship with this girl for about two and a half months. Everything was going great until a few weeks ago she asked for some space to be with her friends more. I said that's fine, so I gave her plenty of space. About a week after that, I ask her ... (179 words)

It intimidates me that she is smarter! And she loves me although I don't see why!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

21 February 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I don't know if there's anyone out there with this problem but my girlfriend is alot smarter than me which imtidate me alot.She went to USC and I dropped out of community college after one semester because I simply can't speak in front of a group and at that time communications ... (286 words)

White collar workers (men) - and their (non)interestingness in bed or otherwise? Are these prejudices?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

21 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have got a question for men...who are in some sort of profession e.g. doctors, engineers, lawyers etc etc or into books. I would like to know how is it like living with them...also are they supposed to be boring in bed or otherwise. ... (44 words)

Broke up with my ex especially for him, yet he is not convinced I like him! How to prove him wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6115 days ago

21 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - iv recently split up with my ex boyfriend for another guy at my wrk! but the problem is the guy i split up with my boyfriend for doesnt tink i like him. iv told him we'll both have sum fun first as hes not long come out of a 4 yr realtionship but it doesnt seem to register... (115 words)

Pregnancy tests came up negative but I missed my period for several months now. Could I still be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6110 days ago

21 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi all just wanted some advice please, i have not had a period since December. done 5 tests all negative, feel bloated, got heartburn. could i still be pregnant, i am going to a doc at the end of month if nothing happens.... (43 words)

If she gathers the courage to tell me how she feels towards me, how will I tell her it's her close friend I am actually interested in?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

21 February 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Well you see, there's this girl I like. We were very good friends. We'd always chat until midnight, and we'd always go out together with our other friends. Then one day, she became cold to me. I don't think she knows that I like her or anything, so I don't know why. (Friend ... (201 words)

When you were single, how long did you usually have to wait before you found somebody? I miss companionship... and sex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

21 February 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I just want to ask any aunts/uncles who are 16 - 24: When you were single, how long did you usually have to wait before you found somebody? I was in a long relationship just over a year ago, and I've been single since! I haven't had a relationship in 13 months now, and have... (154 words)

Can the morning after pill abort a baby?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

21 February 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Can the morning after pill abort a baby? Just, I took it, and just under a week later I began a thick, brown period-like thing (presuming it's a period, but I'm not due for another 15/16 days). Could this be my body naturally aborting the baby, due to the morning after pill? I ... (89 words)

How to get birth controls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

21 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So, Sex? Its soo confusing, right? Well, sometimes I think Im ready but Im soo scared of the risks that come with it, especially pregnency, how would i get B-control? Any one have good suggestions... (35 words)

Advice on meeting boyfriend's parents for the first time.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

21 February 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm meeting my boyfriend's parents tonight, going over to their house for dinner...any advice? He is 33 and I am 41, so we're not kids, and I understand that his father can be somewhat of a bear, his mother as sweet as pie, very well off. ... (47 words)

Still living with the love of my life but she doesn't want me. Don't know what to do because for the past 7 yrs I've told her of every problem and she's been my best friend, always willing to talk.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

21 February 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello all, I originally came on this site to find advice for me and my own Girlfriend as we were having some problems. Some of you may have seen some of the advice that I've left so now, I'm asking for all of your help. My wonderful girlfriend of close to 7 years... (350 words)

To men: do you ever think of your wives/girlfriends while masturbating to porn? Why would you prefer porn to homemade erotic videos?...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

21 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - well, i was working with a guy who's very tight with me on a lot of subjects, and he later showed me some new porn dvds he had bought the other day... he made a comment about this porn stars parts which he described as" looking very very tight". well, this question is more for ... (391 words)

Noticed a lump as I pulled back my foreskin. Anyone that may know what this is before I book an appointment?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

21 February 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and i have recently taken note to a problem ive seen. A while back i thought i needed circumsition but the docter told me i just needed to wash regualry as i was kind of afraid of pulling back the foreskin, and im still finding it difficult as the smegma just re-produces ... (245 words)

Am I boring? What things could I do when we stay in at night so he doesn't get bored?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

21 February 2008 (F) - Hi, Just a quick history. I have been with my partner for nearly 3 years, and we are great together. We are open and honest with eachother and always talk to eachother if one of us is upset or angry with the other. Just recently he brought a new computer for christmas... (401 words)

Many times I want to ignore my best friend, as I need my space - but I am afraid to do so as she has suicidal tendencies. How do I handle this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6117 days ago

21 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my best friend has been a pretty big bitch lately. i love her, but she just doesnt get me anymore. thing is, i cant stop being friends with her, because i know she is suicidal. and i know that when we get into fights shit happens. i dont want her to hurt herself, but i rea... (149 words)

Do guys have a "G-spot" as well?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

21 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Do guys have a "g-spot" too?... (6 words)

I feel so worthless and humiliated and think it's my fault that he returned to his ex who was giving him a baby. How can I move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6114 days ago

21 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - last year my man left me for the ex who was having his baby. he said it was tha right thing to do. I was devastated. i asked him why he couldt just man up to his responsibilities if he still wanted to be with me and he said no. Do you think he did want to be with. now i cant ... (247 words)

I'm gay and have slept with a married man, now I don't know what to do.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

21 February 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - im gay and 27. i fell in love with a coloured guy and he is striagt married and has 3 kids. he is 30. we slept together and now i dont know what to do, can you please help me. i realy like this guy. ... (45 words)

I've realised I'm in love but now she doesn't want to know!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6117 days ago

21 February 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I've lived with the mother of my child since the baby was born. We broke up at the beginning of the pregnancy. When the baby was born, I moved to a different state to support her and provide for her and the child until I had enough money saved to move us back near my family. ... (331 words)

Does he campare me to his ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

21 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help me! I was just wondering, does anyone know if guys compare their current girlfriends to their exes? My boyfriend swears that he only has eyes for me and that before he met me he couldn't imagine spending the rest of his life with anyone but I know that he was with... (232 words)

How can I stop them sending me abroad for school?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6117 days ago

21 February 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, i'm moving to high school next year, problem is my parent's want me to study in Europe but i don't want to! What should i do???... (27 words)

Why won't he stand up for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6117 days ago

21 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year; we are very happy. I know he will be faithful to me and always be there. But, he has a major flaw : He never stands up for me. There is a nasty girl, who just has it in for me - and i have done nothing wrong to her. Yet she ... (127 words)

I want him back, but does he want me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

21 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey I had this ex that I still really like. He broke up with me, because I asked to take a short-break during our relationship and he sayz he wasnt giving 100%, I miss him a lot as he literally was the only guy that was responsible and inspired me to be better in ever... (151 words)

I'm happy for my gf to be bushy, but how can I suggest a style?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

21 February 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - My girl is not into porno, but I want her to trim her pubic hair with style but I am unable to find site that has gallery of styles or an instructional site that explains the different styles of pubic hair trimming for women. Can you help me with that? I love it hairy but I want... (71 words)

He just doesn't do passion! How can I get him out of his hole?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6097 days ago

21 February 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - my fiance has never given me oral and nor has he had an orgasm. This worries me. I always give him oral, he loves it. I've tried to talk to him about it but he changes the subject he also has never given me a passionate kiss, just quick pecks; he won't do french kisses, says ... (88 words)

I want to be humiliated during sex, how can I stop my fetish from keeping me from happyness?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6114 days ago

21 February 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am a 24 year old male from England. I am quite a good looking lad and don't really have any problem getting the girls, the only problem is I am confused as to what turns me on at the moment. Since i was about 15 I have fantasied about silk and satin ladies underwear and ... (523 words)

How can I get out of this love triangle?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

21 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - How do i get rid of an unwanted ex who has put me in a love traingle? I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months and everything was so good between us, we had such a laugh together, i got on well with all his friends,he wanted to spend loads of tine with me, we were both real... (425 words)

It all feels so wrong but I keep coming back and can't find happyness!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

21 February 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Help! I broke up with my boyfriend last week. Two days later I felt so empty inside, like a hole was in my chest, I couldn't breathe, or think straight, that I apologised and got back together with him. Immediately the pain went away but the problems remain in the ... (424 words)

He's my best friend's husband and we're close, but where does friendship cross the line?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

21 February 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am very confused! My friend has been with her husband almost 10 years. He and I didn't really start getting to know each other until about 2 years ago. Once we started to get to know each other we got to be really close. She is O.K. with this and often jokes about how close ... (466 words)

Are women really embarrassed of their pubic hair?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

21 February 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Is a woman really embarassed if a man or boy sees some or all of her pubic hair?... (18 words)

Is an orgasm on the way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

21 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been having regular intercourse for about 3 months now.Just recently,I've started to feel vaginal contractions which I'm finding very pleasurable.Is this an indication that my 1st orgasm is just "round the corner"-or is it just part of the general sensations I can expect ... (61 words)

I miss him but don't know if I should call...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

21 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Having a massive problem.. Im 18, but have always gone for older men. Been sleeping with a 29 year for a couple of weeks after chasing after him for 2 months, he'd take me out with his friends and we'd have a laugh together. I'm not naive enough to believe that we were in a ... (270 words)

Am I too dependent on him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

21 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, im 19 and my boyfriend is 20. We have been together for 8months now. And we love each other since the day we met. Our feelings increase with each passing day. But recently we have been only seeing each other once a week because we both want our space. And I have been ver... (161 words)

We're like ships passing in the night - any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6117 days ago

21 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of just under a year(whom I love more than I have ever loved anyone before)and I had a big arguement last night because he feels we don't make love enough. It is usually about twice a week, mostly at weekends. He works late nights weds-sat whereas I work 9-5 ... (172 words)

Part 2 - Why did they put their pictures on facebook?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6113 days ago

21 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex and I split up a little while back. All throughout our year ling relationship, she desperately tried to get him back. Now, through photos on Facebook, it seems she has got her wish. Hundreds of photos of them doing stuff together, amoungst other stuff, but I know alot ... (206 words)

Why did they put their pictures on facebook?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6108 days ago

21 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I was with my ex a year. In the first 3 months, his ex (of 4 years) kept hassling him, trying to break us up. She was desperate to keep contact, to remain friends, but they had only left it 3 months between breaking up and us getting together, which looking back, wasn't long ... (205 words)

My relationships always fail. How can I make sure this one lasts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6117 days ago

21 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've had 4 serious relationships since I was 16 (one was 3 years, the other 3 were 1 year relationships). Obviously none of those guys were right for me, we ended up breaking up for one reason or another. I've recently met a guy after being single for some monhts. I'm real... (98 words)

How can I get over myself to find love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

21 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 17 years old and i have never had a real boyfriend, I feel very self conscious and find it hard to trust people. Some of my friends have boyfriends and I don't exactly want to "follow the crowd" but do want to feel loved, how can I build on my self esteem and get lads to ... (63 words)

My friend is finding motherhood very stressful. How can I help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6108 days ago

21 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been staying at my friends house while her boyfriend is away as they have a 4 week old baby and she wanted some company and help. I knew they were finding being parents hard, this is their first child and they are both 23. Last night I woke up to hear the baby screamin... (150 words)

I wish he could last longer in bed, how do we achieve that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6118 days ago

21 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i'm 17 and me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 9 months. we have sex a lot and i love it, but sometimes i wish he could last longer. any advice on what to do? also, i've never orgasmed either, and i know loads of women take ages to, but yeah, any advice? thank ... (59 words)

I'm really stressing out, could I be pregnant??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6015 days ago

21 February 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I'm really worrying in case I'm pregnant... On valentines day, the condom split, so next day I took the morning after pill. As far as I was aware, everything went fine. A few days later, he ejaculated, but there didn't seem to be anything in the end of the condom.. We chec... (127 words)

This girl has not had other boyfriends before, what should I say on our date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

21 February 2008 (M)

age - Hey, I'm 13 in May and i'm going on a date soon im her first boyfriend and i dunno what to do, because every girl ive dated have had bfs before me? help me please =\... (39 words)

I have invested so much emotionally and financially to this guy... turns out he is happily married with no plans of divorcing! What now?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

21 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I had an affair with a married man for 1.5 years when his wife discovered the affair. She made him leave and because I knew how much his son meant to him, I helped him get set up in an apartment near his home and have paid for his rent for the last year. (I know I sound ... (250 words)

It appears the measurements grant different results, decreasing? What's going on?

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21 February 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright, so I was starting to notice this a couple weeks ago, but figured I was imagining things, and now I'm possitive that I'm not. My penis is shrinking, I know that sounds ridiculous, but it's true. It wasn't big to begin with, only about 5.5 inches, but over the l... (133 words)

It's stressing to lead my life keeping in mind what society is thinking and perceiving about me, but I can't help it!

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21 February 2008 (F) age 41-50 - hey everyone here....i m a girl suffering from depression and anxiety disorders with a low self esteem....my problem is tht i'm too people conscious...all the time i'm analyzing every small action and every small word uttered by me n what people will think about me because of ... (70 words)

Is this what you call a love triangle? Is my problem in fact that I'm hesitant to like anyone who likes me firstly?

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21 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i cant even, i dont even, i dont even know how to start this one. well. so, there is this kid in my school, lets call him M. i was always intrigued by him, you could say interested, but more of from afar. hes goofy cute i guess you could, not your typical every girl loves... (512 words)

I think I'm ready now but not totally sure? Any suggestions to help me calm down?

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21 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i'm 15 and my bf is 16, i'm kinda scared of having sex its not that im scared of getting preg or anythink like that (we're not that stupid) and i know it's kinda but at the same time of me being scared i have this like feeling that i really can't explain but ^^ its a nice ... (264 words)

My boyfriend's ex has created an online profile with photos of her and my bf. Am I wrong to be mad about this?

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21 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - ok i'll try to keep this short..i have been with my BF for 4 years..a freind of mine told me that there was something i might want to see on Facebook,, she lead me to my BF's...EX girlfiend's profile..Apparently little miss,, has created a photo album, consisting of her and my ... (159 words)

My love has faded and I find myself annoyed with my bf. Why do I feel this way? How can I make it go away?

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21 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend of three years. A little bit more than that. I used to be basically obsessed with him because it took me a while to get serious with him because of other girls. He hasnt touched another girl for three years so that's all fine... anyways I used to wish that he ... (213 words)

Is my brother in law trying it on?

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21 February 2008 (?) age 36-40 - Hi there, Okay, so I've now been married two months; however my husband is stationed overseas. I love my husband, and aside from being apart am very happy. My husband's family lives a few hours away and I visit as often as I can. Over the last few visits I've noticed tha... (166 words)

I lost a lot of weight, and want more sex than my man can provide, how can I change things around?

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21 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am a 26 year old happily married woman. My husband and I have been married for 5 years and together for 8. We are very happy and compatiable. The only problem I have with our relationship is that he doesn't want sex NEARLY as much as I do. When we were both younger He ... (394 words)

I didn't go out and party "a lot" so my gf left me. Any way I can show her I can be "fun" too?

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21 February 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend just broke up with me recently, and she gave no clear reason. Our relationship was fine we were completely fine, but i think it's cause i'm "lame." I admit I don't go out and party "a lot" but I have friends and we go out once and a while, we have fun... The ... (151 words)

I'm attracted to the maturity of older women, is this normal?

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21 February 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I wonderd about this and i think finally that i was right all along. I like older wemon, it's because i don't like the imature actions of a lot of the girls at my school and thus making me not like them. But older women i have been around even if there only in collage and are ... (76 words)

I am bi and my dad said he would disown his children in such case, so how can I tell them?

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21 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My dad has always said he would disown his kids if he found out any of us were gay/les/bi. I don't have the best relationship with my dad but I do my mom but I am afrade to tell them that I am bi. I am 17. I have three brothers also that would judge me and I have had a hard ... (85 words)

We are both naughty, but we get nervous to be kinky during sex... what should I do??

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21 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i really want to do naughty things with my boyfriend but everytime we have sex i get all nervous to do the stuff that i really want to do. im into the kinky stuff and so is he but we never really do it. sex is great though, dont get me wrong. i would just like to spice it up. ... (74 words)

My cheating boyfriend wants to stay together, I think, does he?

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21 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive been with my boyfriend for over a year now.He's 34 and Im 25 and Ive stuck by him through thick and thin.when his car broke down,i took him to work for four straight months. He lost that job last month, i was still driving him around,spending time with him,encouraging ... (185 words)

How do I convince him that I really want a baby although I'm 16?

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21 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so im 16. and i really love my boyfriend. we have been together about a year and a half now and im just ready to start my life with him already. everybody always tells me that i should wait to move in with him b/c i dont know what im getting myself into, but i love him and ... (106 words)

Her not talking to me is tearing me apart. How can I fix this?

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21 February 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey I really like this girl but today I got into a fight with her ex and now she refuses to retun my calls, txts, and Ims. I told her I like her but she didn't feel the same and I just want her to be happy but i still want her to be a close freind. Her not talking to me is te... (75 words)

It was wrong to cheat years ago, but do I have to suffer for the rest of my life!

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21 February 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am not for sure where to even begin. Here it goes! My BF and I have been together for 4years in the beginning of our relationship I cheated on him. I know it was wrong and I am not excusing myself for this, after a year he found out about it, and I finally came cle... (534 words)

Met him online through a personal ad...can anyone answer my questions?

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21 February 2008 (?) age 36-40 - Ok, so i met this guy online through a personal ad. hes totally cool and he wanted to hang out almost immediately. he seems kool and he understands that im not just in it for sex and neither is he. i kinda nervous tho. i think about him alot and i dunno whether i should call or ... (129 words)

I can't let go of her! Help

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21 February 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I'm a guy, age 16, and there's this girl and we've been the best of friends for 9 years. Naturally, I started to have feeling toward her. I asked her about a little while back and she said she didn't want to damage our friendship, which I completely understo... (99 words)

His stepdaughter is treating me like crap. How do I confront this?

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21 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am having serious problems with my partners 9 year old daughter. My partner and I started dating about 9 months ago. It was a different situation than normal, as I was traveling and met him during my travels. We dated for about three weeks when I was due to fly to New ... (1039 words)

I'm 54 and need to know...how do women really feel about a guy with a beer belly?

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21 February 2008 (M)

age - How do women feel about men with a medium size so called beer belly? Hard to get rid of and be a stud at 54? Does it really matter that much?... (31 words)

I want my best friends ex bf! But she still loves him! What can I do?

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21 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I have e problem...I have a bestfriend. Shes been my BFF since 6th grade. Her and her ex broke up over a year ago.. but she loved him and claims "she always will...he was her first love". Well, now I LOVE him, i dont know what to do, I love them both...please help!!!... (54 words)

Should he be forgiven after cheating again?

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21 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend cheated on me with his baby's mom who is pregnant and will be having the baby in 3 weeks. This happened two months ago. Then I found out and also she confronted me later about 1 month later. I love him dearly so I had took him back and he promised never to do it ... (296 words)