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writes:I just want to ask any aunts/uncles who are 16 - 24: When you were single, how long did you usually have to wait before you found somebody? I was in a long relationship just over a year ago, and I've been single since! I haven't had a relationship in 13 months now, and haven't had sex for 14!! Please tell me some of you have been without somebody for as long as that. I'm starting to feel like some kind of freak here. I go out quite a lot, usually with my friends. I talk to girls, and if I'm honest, I've seen a couple of them a second night after meeting them, but it just doesn't seem to go any further. I miss having someone to be with, and I am definitely tired of not having Sex. I don't want to wait anymore, so can somebody please advise me? Reply to this Question
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reader, Abacadaba +, writes (22 February 2008):
 Its taken me a year and a half to start seeing another girl, which happened recently, there where a few girls i got close too inbetween but nothing happened, i just didnt click with the other girls. Maybe your problem has something to do with this, you havent found a girl both your mind and your heart are set on. i wouldnt force it, just wait till you find a girl you click with, nothing can stop love. Take the time to just enjoy being single, and hopefully meet a nice girl along the way.
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (21 February 2008):
 I gotta be honest im only 19 and i was single for almost a year (partly cause i feared all guys were complete freaks like my ex)it happens you cant force yourself into a relationship you gotta ask yourself do you want a relationship or just sex? Just sex then you go out to a club and find someone to take home (im not recommending it but its your life your body just remeber to wear a condom, dont force yourself, make sure she consents and make sure she isnt completely wrecked and passes out half way through).
But to be fair i found someone at a time when i least expected it, it does happen just be more confident dont be afraid of the opposite sex. Things always happen when you least expect it so dont expect to find someone when your looking expect it when your not looking.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2008): Well, I was single for almost 2 years when I broke up from my boyfriend when I was 15. But I guess I didn't miss the sex because I'd never had it lol. But now I'm with my long term boyfriend, I don't think I'd like to be single again. I just wanna always be with him. But being single's not that bad, you can have fun and flirt and do what you want :]
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