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writes:Hi!I have posted earlier about my ex bf of 2.5 years and how he cheated the whole time. We live in different cities and these days I find myself getting mad at all our mutual friends back there - they hang out like everything is normal, go clubbing etc. I would like them to not be so nice to him! I realize I am being rather silly here, but this is seriously the way I feel. It's like if they can go on being best buds with him, how can they claim to be my friend?My ex bf and I had a huge argument last night. Decided it's definitely not worth it trying to be his friend. I actually did want to try doing that. But he clearly couldn't care less. So why am I doing this to myself- going round and round in circles with this 'man'? Why do I still care what happens to him- he will be 28 in two weeks, he still hasn't finished his degree (he's been at it for 5 years now- it's a 2 year course). Why, after 5 months, do I still care? I will definitely try and not have any sort of contact with him and frankly I don't care to speak to anyone I knew in my old city either. Am I just being too immature?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2008): Wow- that was kinda harsh. I get that the problem is between the two of us. These thoughts just needed airing I guess.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2008): Believe it or not, a human is capable of being friends with more than one person at a time, girl.Besides the way I see it... the problem is between you and him, not your friends.You are acting selfish and foolish.Grow up and get a life.Flynn 24
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reader, faith_believe_love  +, writes (22 February 2008):
 Hi,.Frankly speaking yes your being immature.You said that you dont like it when your friends treats him nicely,You cant tell your Friends what to do they know what they are doing also you cant tell them who will be their friend its their choice.This guy cheated on you and thats the reason why you are mad at him but the two of you was over!!Get over him!!!Good Luck.Take care.
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