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I can't let go of her! Help

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Question - (21 February 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 February 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Dear Cupid,

I'm a guy, age 16, and there's this girl and we've been the best of friends for 9 years. Naturally, I started to have feeling toward her. I asked her about a little while back and she said she didn't want to damage our friendship, which I completely understood. But I still had these feeling for her. And today, she's had sex twice already with her old boyfriend before she's even touched the steering wheel. I want to let her go, but something inside me just can't do it. I need some advice.

Thank you

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (21 February 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntShe wants only friendship from you and you should respect her. Continue with being friends for her till one day she will see the true potential in you.

Don't fight those feelings. Just accept them and you will have peace inside of you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2008):

goin through similar situation at the moment but why do you feel the need to let go? be ther for her even if it's painful to watch her with other guys be her friend and who knows maybe someday things will work out between you two there is no need to rush into things good luck

-michael

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