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writes:hi i'm 15 and my bf is 16, i'm kinda scared of having sex its not that im scared of getting preg or anythink like that (we're not that stupid) and i know it's kinda but at the same time of me being scared i have this like feeling that i really can't explain but ^^ its a nice feeling, i posed a question like this long ago and i took somes advice and told him to wait, hes very understanding like that and a while ago we where in class and it was sex ed week (woo hoo -.-) and whenever the teacher wasnt looking he would start to make out with me and put his hand between my leg (i have no problem with this atall) and the hole class is giggeling caz of the subjec (and btw he was hard as hell in class) and when he came to my house that night the subject came up just as we where going to sleep and yes he knows how i feel and everythink he said he waited like i asked and loved me so much and he thinks i'm ready now (i'm a lot more ok with him around me and touching me now and my mom even lets him sleep with me) and i think i'm ready now too but i still feel a little scared any advice on how to calm my nervs??thx for reading this sry it was so long i got bored so felt like tell u my life story XD Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2008): Hi Sweetheart,
If you are questioning if your ready then your not hunny, He may think you are ready but he hasnt got the feelings you have. Take a little more time I no you dont want to you just want to do it!!! But believe me when I say your question has its own answer you need to be more comfortable and hunny there is no big rush and if he does understand then he wont pressure you. (not that he is hun) But by your b/f telling you he thinks your ready may have popped a few thoughts in your head.. You will no when you are ready without a doubt, Id wait untill you were at least 16 but thats my veiw because I have a daughter and it scares the crap out of me to think she may be wanting sex at 15, I no times have changed and Im a laid back mum but its a scarey thought love, Just trust in your own instincts and you will no. And before you even try anything think about the pill implant and I no you understand safe sex as from what you said, Im sorry if I babbled just concerned is all hunny YOU TAKE CARE WITH LOTS OF LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, starfairy  +, writes (21 February 2008):
 If you're not totally sure, then don't do it. Because you're obviously not ready. And the more you think about it, the more stressed about it you will become. When it happens, it will happen. I know that sounds dumb, but it's true. Just let it happen naturally, and don't be forced into anything.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2008): it is natural to feel scared and nervous and it is obvious that you two have a good reltaionship and trust each other when you decide you want to sleep with him try and make it happen in a comfortable environment and then it may be hard to do so but you just have to relax.
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