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I love him but he is making things hard!! what do I do??

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Question - (21 February 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 February 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *moothlegs writes:

my bf is everything to me, and i love it when he enjoys doing something that he is really interested in. but he doesnt get up to go to school and he was supposed to graduate 2 years ago. he is very smart! he was failing every class and when the graduations tests came, me made the highest on them. he is just very lazy, he is always late for school, he misses half the day b4 deciding to even come!! and it really bugs me b/c when he wants to practice with he band he is in he is always on time then.

he just doesnt realize how hard it is on me b/c i always have students and teachers asking me about him and it just gets really annoying. what is some addvice that i can give HIMMMM?!??!?!?! i think ive said everything i could possibly say to him so what is something else to get his attention? please help!

thanx.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2008):

Hi Hunny

Im not saying it could be this but it may be a sleeping disorder that very few people know about and the only thing that motivates the person with this is the thing they really love to do, They tend to be night owls more than day is your b/f like this sweetheart. When he wakes up is he alert or does it take awhile for him to become alert and does he feel angry at times with people and misunderstood. If you give me a little more about this and his behaviour patterns then I will try and see if he is just bored with life and as you say lazy or there is a deaper rooted problem here ok hun message me if you want or just post back sweetheart TAKE CARE LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

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A female reader, jace_mr.muffles Canada +, writes (23 February 2008):

maybe you should ask him... coming from your heart to his be really sicere about it and i know you really care about him so dont stop pursuading him to go ask him if he would do this for you and for your guys' relationship so you can take it to the next level and maybe he can even open up to u more ask him y hes doin this maybe he has reasons and maybe even mature up a bit who knows thats how love and caring really works it always work strangely

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