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writes:im gay and 27. i fell in love with a coloured guy and he is striagt married and has 3 kids. he is 30. we slept together and now i dont know what to do, can you please help me. i realy like this guy.
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reader, Alan Phillips  +, writes (22 February 2008):
hey friend As a gay man myself I have had sex with a married man and enjoyed it but he had a family and he told me he wasn't. I would do this again because it could rip his family apart yes its not all folt and he should tell his wife. I think that you should talk to him and let him know how you feel and what you should do.
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reader, maddox08  +, writes (22 February 2008):
 Hey hon let me tell you a story. My gay bestfriend had a thing for a married man once and they like you slept with eachother. Well he (my best friend) was 26 and a strong member of our young gay community, while this married man was 36, and the county comissioner, had 4 children. Well my friend (well just call him A.M.) Really was in love with that married jerk, he just kept on beliving everything that he was saying like he was gonna leave his wife and his office just to be with him. Needless to say that was bull. Its been two years now since the city and everyones mamma found out what was going on between a.m. and the comish and my friend ended a marriage, caused dissapproval, and shame to his entire family, and left fleeing with embarassement. The comish lost his office , his family. He now works flipping burgers in the next city over. Hon please listen to me its not worth it these things always end in disaster!
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (21 February 2008):
 I forgot to add that he cant be all that straight if he is sleeping with you i hate men like that who want everything and have no sympathy for those they hurt im sorry you ended up liking him and im sorry you got hurt but we live and learn.
(Oh and the dirty little secret wasnt mean to sound rude just from a song)
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (21 February 2008):
He is married darling im sorry you might not want to hear this but he wont leave his wife and kids for you its just not gonna happen, and do you really want to break up a family and have them and him hate you for it? I dont think so you just need to break all contact and just forget about him i know it might hurt but its best for everyone afterall who wants to be someone's "dirty little secret?"
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reader, Serinity +, writes (21 February 2008):
 Well, I don't know if I would consider him "straight" if he had sexual intercourse with you. But he is married with 3 kids. I believe it would be best if you just cut your losses and move on. If you persue him and destroy his family you will only cause more harm then good.
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