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writes:HeyI had this ex that I still really like. He broke up with me, because I asked to take a short-break during our relationship and he sayz he wasnt giving 100%, I miss him a lot as he literally was the only guy that was responsible and inspired me to be better in everything I do. Now he's gone. When we broke up, he didn't want to speak to me, he pushed me away, I guess I really hurt him.I tried to get him back, but failed. But after a few months he started calling me, xmas, b-day,new yrs/eve and any other random day. I was so afraid because I didn't know if he was just trying to be friendly. Do you think he was trying to get me back? Do u believe in, if it's meant to be it will be?
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reader, jabey  +, writes (21 February 2008):
it sounds like he prob was trying to get back with you.
So I suggest you call him and arrange a get to gether to catch up.
Then during this meeting tell him you miss him, and would like to try again, and gage his reaction.
If he does not say he want sto try again, it may be because he is afraid of getting hurt. So at this point continue a friendship with him and see if anything grows from this.
I agree if its meant to be wit will be good luck xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2008): If you can't tell him face to face, write it down in a letter. Often its easier to express your true feelings on paper rather than in person. Don't think about what you are writing, let your heart do the writing for you instead...
But you have to tell him if you want to find out where you stand. At least that way you will know one way or another and you won't be wasting your life pining after him thinking "what if......."
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reader, g247  +, writes (21 February 2008):
One of you has to make the move. Let him know you want him back and see what he says.
As you said, he probably pushed you away because you hurt him when you broke up with him.
But his renewed contact could be a sign that he now feels the same as you. Prepare yourself though, it could be a sign that he's over you and just wants to be friends.
Only one way to find out for sure though isn't there?
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