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writes:Hi, I am a 24 year old male from England. I am quite a good looking lad and don't really have any problem getting the girls, the only problem is I am confused as to what turns me on at the moment.Since i was about 15 I have fantasied about silk and satin ladies underwear and the idea of being forced to wear them. I even went through a stage of getting some then wearing them just for pleasure, not as a normal item of clothing. I then met a girlfriend at 17 and did nothing and thought nothing about it. It was more the pleasure of seeing the silk and satin on her that i liked and she knew it. I was with her for about 3 years.But after we broke up I found a pair of her silk knickers and I tried them on. It kinda has spiraled since then. The next GF i had one night actually wanted me to wear a pair of her knickers as a joke i think (she knew nothing about my fetish) and that was awesome, however from then i subtly let her know i liked it and i think that turned her off completely and now we are not with eachother. I don't own any pairs now but often think about it. My picture porn collection on my pc is all ladies in silk and satin. When i think sexual thoughts, the only way i am finding that i can get aroused is if i think of being dominated, force femmed or humiliated in some way. It started with just the knickers and being in them and having normal sex, now i imagine being fully femmed and humiliated in front of people. Each web site has led me to another, i like reading stories on it and the fetish has now spread to... small penis humiliation, strapon (not imagining it in a gay way but as a humiliating act being performed and the woman laughing.I have also for some time now been going to sissy chat rooms as such and roleplaying fantasies where i have been hypnotised and are 'forced' to carry out acts that the chatroom dom wants e.g, 'go put your housemates knickers on' etc etc... but some far more humilating. I would then pretend to go along with it. I am confused as to what i can do about this. Is there a way to maybe reverse it, like maybe become a more dominant person? I would love to live out one of these fantasies but I can't see how much of a future they have if i want to start a family or have a normal relationship, let alone what my family and friends would say if they found out. I guess there are a couple of questions here, but more just for me to be able to write out what i am going through and to see if you have heard of it before? Thank you in advance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2008): Hiya babeActually there are a lot of girls who find crossdressers (sounds like you're one yourself, sorry if you don't wanna hear that but... there ya go) really hot, I should know because I am one such girl. And if you're not actually a full-on cross-dresser, then you at least have a fetish for stockings etc. From my experience of meeting guys like yourself, I would say they are usually very fun, interesting, adventurous yet sensitive and open-minded. Seriously, guys who have the guts to admit to themselves that they cross-dress often seem to have a hell of a time, depending on one thing. And that's that they're not repulsed by themselves for it, and that they accept that it's a part of them.A lot of cross-dressers have told me that, like you, they're a bit confused and freaked out at first, kinda ashamed. So they try to stop themselves, and a few years pass. Then they find themselves at it again. It doesn't seem like something you can 'cure' just like that.It's just another kind of fetish. It doesn't mean you're less of a guy. There are a lot of sites on it, it seems to help a lot of guys to talk about it online, to get it out of them to people that understand. I reckon you should get out there and explore the wonderful world of fetishes!Good luck! xxx
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