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writes: have a question about orgasms. How can my bf help me have an orgasm? How can I help him to have one? Is it possible for either or us to have more than one? I would love it if we both had one at the same time. Is this possible? Regarding sex positions and orgasms. Are there better positions that help lead to better or more orgasms? My sometime like standing positions. Any info about orgasms and standing sex positions? Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2008): A man CAN have multiple orgasms.But unlike females... its takes much training and practice. Its all about relaxing certain muscles so you orgasm but don't cum and the orgasm doesn't stop.Its called Tantric Sex. Look it up.Flynn 24
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reader, Collaroy +, writes (21 February 2008):
 Well us guys cant have multiple orgasms ( proof that God is indeed a female ), but you can. If you haven't had one yet ( I assume from your post that you havent ) I would advise you to explore your sexuality first. Masturbation is the best option to make you cum. If you can't bring yourself to orgasm chances are no guy will be able to. Concentrate on the spots which make you go all tingly, use a vibrator dildo or whatever to stimulate your clitoris ( my from own experience most girls need clitoral stimulation to orgasm )and let nature take its course. When you can get yourself off, just direct your boyfriend to concentrate on the same spots that brought you to orgasm. Guys don't mind if you point us in the right direction, half of us have no idea what goes on down there so this is one time in a man's life where we are prepared to take directions from a woman :-)
As for climaxing simultaneously, its just pure luck but great when it happens.
As for anything else, practice makes perfect, but practice on yourself first just to get the hang of things.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2008): My internet is gonna die any minute lol but all I'll say is it's easier for the person on top to have an orgasm, and it's not possible for a guy to have multi orgasms, but it is for a girl! Good luck!
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