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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Pregnant and not sure who the father is!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6134 days ago

27 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I were seperated for a couple months and I started a short relationship with someone else. I ended up getting back together with my boyfriend because we have a kid together. I ended up pregnant and he thinks the baby is not his and makes my life miserable ... (112 words)

BIG problem!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 February 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Its' been about 4 years since my last proper relation ship, the previous girlfriend messed me around so much I've lost all confidence and self meaning I had and cannot even talk to women anymore and until 6 months ago had a seriouse drink problem, I'm over the drink now but the ... (136 words)

I'm so tempted to call his wife and rat him out because I feel for her and of course I would get some statisfaction.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6088 days ago

27 February 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I was dating this guy for about a year that I met at work. The question I have is and I probably already know the answer. He was seperating from his wife and also has two children with her. Why does he continue to spend time with her and of course always uses the kids to ... (231 words)

I asked her out and she said "I'm not sure..." I need to know!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6141 days ago

27 February 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I like this girl and she likes me. We've been on a date and we kissed. Later on it started getting really heated snd we were kissing really passionately like we luv each other so much. Now I want to ask her out. So I asked her wot she would say if I did and she said not sure. ... (102 words)

Is my girlfriend depressed or just sick of me? Should I hold out or move on?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

27 February 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello All. I'm 23, girlfriend is 33. We've been together 6 great years. We rarely have any disagreements, we see each other nightly, and do our own things at the weekends. I'm heavily involved in cars, and she likes gardening. I live with my parents just one mile fr... (727 words)

Is it legal to be with your "First Cousin, Once Removed"?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4334 days ago

27 February 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I was just wondering if it was legal to be with your "First Cousin, Once Remeoved"? You see I'm in love with him and he doesn't know yet. I plan to tell him though. However I don't know about my question...I thought for the longest time that he was my "Second Cousin", but I ... (142 words)

Did he get an erection because he likes me??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6141 days ago

27 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 14 years old(girl) Ever since grade.8 started last year this boy in my class(13) has been bugging and flirting towards me. I've barely have talked to him before but I still think he is a nice guy. Since he has been showing flirty gestures people think he likes me. Since I ... (111 words)

Things are gettin awkward...and he says it's because I am clingy and anti-social.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6139 days ago

27 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - OK so I noticed things have been getting wierd between my bpyfriend and I. Long periods of akward silence, him living me to go hang out wit the boys, puuling away when I go to kiss him, and several other things of that nature. As it is we really only see each other on weekends... (206 words)

She is always getting male calls....is she cheating??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6140 days ago

27 February 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I met a girl of about 19 yrs of age, whenever am with her she receives a lot of male calls telling her to come over their place. Sometimes she will tell them that it is late that she will come the next day. After that she will tell me that the guy is either a family friend or ... (83 words)

He really wants to hear me moan...is there anything I can do so when he tries again I do moan??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6141 days ago

27 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Yesterday I went over to my boyfriend's house. Well he wanted to hear me moan really bad. So he tried so hard just to get me to moan. He fingered me and kissed me on the neck a lot. I felt amazing but no moan came out. So he felt like he wasn't pleasing enough and all that ... (92 words)

She's always flirted and continues to flirt on the web, she says it's harmless, is it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6141 days ago

27 February 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - My g/f's 360 page(sorta like myspace)page.Almost all her friends are men.I'm a light skinned man and all these guys are dark skinned.The darker the guy the bigger he is.I'm not small but with all the meds I take I get erectile dysfunction.I can take viagra tho so that's no ... (427 words)

My over-protectiveness drove her away and now all I want to do is explain why.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6139 days ago

27 February 2008 (?) age 36-40 - I split up with my gf cos she thought i was possesive, now theres nothing worse than a over protective boyfriend i know, and i have to admit that i was being over protective of her but i really didnt meant to be and it really tears me up what happened.... A few years back i h... (412 words)

Should I tell my college professor I love him??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6070 days ago

27 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in love with my college professor, I'm 28 and he has to be like close to 50. I don't know what to do, and sometimes I think he likes me too. Should I tell him?... (36 words)

Is it possible to be a bad boy and sensitive too??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 February 2008 (?) age 36-40 - Is it possible to be a bad boy but be sensitive at the same time, is this why my relationships dont last? Not that im proud of it or anything but i do tend to have a reputation as a tough guy, but when i with a girl i like to be all lovey dovey sort of thing... Is it maye cos... (130 words)

She caught me watching porn, but we don't have sex anymore, so whose fault is this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 February 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My live-in partner caught me watching porn and wacking off. She ofcourse pretended as though she didn't see anything. I don't like her trying to sneak up on me and it ticks me off because she's never allowed me to have sex with her for years now. First it was because of h... (178 words)

I brush him off when he wants sex, so now he's watching porn and hiding it from me, what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

27 February 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - (This is my fake anonymous account. I am Female) I caught my fiance masturbating in the basement while watching porn over the internet. I pretended I didn't see him as he scrambled to cover his tracks. He minimized everything in his desktop and covered his thing section wi... (113 words)

Is it wrong for me to feel resentful after I helped him out so much??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6141 days ago

27 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has recently come into some money (about 3000 pounds). Previous to this he always struggled, and I bailed him out of many bills that he ended up struggling to pay etc etc. I did this out of kindness and never expected anything back, however i do only earn a small ... (278 words)

How can I react if my friend is pregant??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6138 days ago

27 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. One of my best friends thinks she could be pregnant, and she's been getting bad stomach pains for the last three days... I'm going to town with her at the weekend and we are going to get a pregnancy test. I'm worried about how to react if she is pregnant, and how to help ... (105 words)

He doesn't understand how angry I am...but wouldnt you be??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

27 February 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I would like to know if i am asking too much of my husband; from day one, i tried to keep things spicey in the b.room, i would lay rose petals on the bed, put candles out, dress provacativly, i made sure his meals were always there right after work,. I used to bathe him, and... (195 words)

How can he love me but not want to work things out??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 19 and he's 22, we've been together 9 months. 2 months ago, he took a job offer in his hometown. Now I'm in NC (school, working and living at home) and he's in PA (working and living with his parents). He took the job up there b/c he likes the area, likes to snowmobi... (307 words)

He insists everything would be wonderful if we moved but I can see he is uncomfortable...what can I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for over three years. I love him, but my family is also very very important to me, and they live on the East Coast while he lives on the West. I've told him that I want to move back to be closer to them and he has said that he'... (129 words)

I've just got out of a relationship...but could be pregant...what do I do??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I just got out of a long relationship and think im pregant. What do i do! im young and confused.... (21 words)

My teacher blushes when seeing me, and MINE is not infatuation!...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

27 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone!! Well my question is that I am in love with one of my male teachers.It is certainly not infatuation. I am positive he knows because my friends have said it to him just as a joke.His answer to this was 'that's great'. Whenever he passes me in the halls or sees ... (224 words)

Why would my 15 year old have open diapers inside her closet? I have not mentioned my discovery yet.

This question has 43 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

27 February 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Well, I was cleaning through my daughters room as usual while she was at school and I go through her closet to clean it up and all and I find a bag of diapers (open) inside her closet. I wasn't really sure what to think at the moment besides that I needed to get some sort of ... (104 words)

Could you suggest flirty, naughty nicknames for guys?...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been talking to this guy for a while now and he calls me loads of different nicknames... But what can i call him? Flirty, love or naughty nicknames... ... (32 words)

Why does he need time to think before marriage? Has something changed recently, for him to hesitate?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am engaged currently and we had a date picked out already but now he is saying he needs time to think about getting married now. I can't be mad because he is being honest, but at the same time what do i do? I know that i love him and want to spend the rest of my life with him ... (167 words)

How can the pill affect my periods?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6141 days ago

27 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Im worried as my period has become alot lighter then usual. Ive been on the pill for a few years now, but ive also heard actually worrying about the period can make it stop. its just because its the second month now and once again its not back to normal...am i just stressing to ... (57 words)

Why do I feel like walking away when I argue with my bf? I'm scared the ex has passed his insecurities onto me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy for 6 weeks. I just wondered if the way I have been feeling is normal? I am so, so into this guy. It feels a little more than lust, but not love. That crazy, can't stop looking at him, can't stop thinking about him feeling. I'm not naive enou... (328 words)

Is he just being nosy? Is he regretting the split?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6139 days ago

27 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - So go figure this one out... I was with my ex boyfriend for a year. We lived together (from 4 months on). He dumped me just after Christmas. I moved out within the week. He'd spent almost £800 on presents for me for Christmas. Then he dumps me. The thing is,... (234 words)

I've fallen in love with my friend, however I doubt a relationship would be possible. How do I learn to love him as just a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

27 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Right this is really hard but i've never really had a bf before and have fell in love with a friend of mine. We havent been friends long and are not that close but are on the same course. The thing is i thought he liked me at first because he used to look at me alot and stuff ... (418 words)

Please help so I can stop stressing about unwanted pregnancy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hii all, well the only way to start this is that i've managed to get myself into a right old panic atm. Thing is i had sex with my boyfriend without using a condom, stupid idea i know but i am on the contraceptive pill. I know all about the risks with sti's and although... (134 words)

I helped him find his mother and she has separated us, what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 February 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - me and my fiance was together 2 and a half years and planned to get married in june 08, but he wanted to find his birth mum so i helped him do this,anyways we found her in july 07 and in novemeber 07 he went to live with her, ending our relationship via his mum, i met him on ... (139 words)

How to cope with his lack of trust after the pain I caused him by leaving him in the past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 February 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - How do I make my fiance believe me when I say I love him and will not leave him? I broke up with him and we were apart for 6 months and he says it was too easy for me to leave him and that he is afraid I will do it again. I know the mistake I made by breaking up with him the ... (82 words)

I'm tired of faking happiness when I know my wife's getting so personal with someone else... in the Internet. Is this tolerable?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

27 February 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone, and God Bless you all. This is a good thing that you are all doing. I feel guilty for doing this, but about 6 months ago, I had this strange feeling that my wife was using her computer at work and the computer at home to talk to other men. So I created a fake... (337 words)

Is frequent masturbation at 30 normal??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6102 days ago

27 February 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and i have been together for 8 years and married for only 2, our marriege is about to end, due to the fact that i keep catching him in the shower masturbating, he is 30 years old, we dont have sex anymore, except maybe once a month, and when we do he has premature ... (110 words)

I feel like I am emotionally cheating on my long distance lover...but I can't cut this other man out of my life.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My story has taken me across the world, but yet a part of me could never leave home. Three years ago, while traveling in China I met him. Newly single, and out of the safeness of my own surroundings he seemed to bring security and grounding to my life. He introduced me to hi... (1040 words)

I think this is highly inappropriate behavior from a married woman...should I confront her??

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

27 February 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I have been married for a about a year and a half. We dated for three years prior to that and we have a one year old son. She found an old crush on myspace and they have been talking regularly. I've logged into her myspace account and I've read the messages between ... (357 words)

Suffering far from home with a bf who hates me, what can I do??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Since the beginning of our 3yr relationship, my bf and I have had troubles. I found out through investigation, that he was still involved with his ex, and by the time the info came to me, I was pregnant. I gave him a second chance, but he treated me like dirt the entire t... (255 words)

Should I ask him what happened at the party or forget about it??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I went to a party and got realy wasted with my freinds boyfreind i dont remember anything but i do remember waking up next to him with both my pants and underwear on backwards yea i know its wierd but he never said anything so i left without him knowing. Its been a week and... (75 words)

We slept together and now he is avoiding me...what happened??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

27 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - So after 3 weeks of dating and getting to know this guy who was planning future (months ahead) dates for us... we slept together. Now he is avoiding me? What happened?... (32 words)

The age differecen would be huge...but would it be right??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

27 February 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - The problem is that I am 28 years old, a mature student at University, and the female students are younger than me, aged 19-23. Am I too old to date a younger female student aged 20-23? Is it morally wrong? The age gap (say I found a girlfriend aged 20) would be absolutely ... (122 words)

I spend much time in company of my gay friend, the inevitable gossips have distanced us, how to help the situation? I feel as though he's been taken away by common nastiness.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6141 days ago

27 February 2008 (?)

- hi i have got a bit of deilema! its a forbiden friendship. heres the story. we both go to a small 6th form and we both have different friendship groups. its been about a year since we first met and since then we have got really, really close as friends. over this year my tru... (296 words)

Is my girlfriend being selfish, to complain about her financial efforts whereas I am unemployed?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

27 February 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - ive been with my girlfriend for 2 yrs and she has supported me financially as ive been unemployed, i spend most of my time on the computer because i can chat to the women on there they understand me far better than my girlfriend does, although we have a fairly close ... (328 words)

I refused to have his second child until he marries me, so he decided to leave! Please advise.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6140 days ago

27 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a friend I have dated for over two years now. I have a child of his since a year ago. The problem now is that he wants me to have another child for him. I refused. He has already married. He promised to marry me and divorced the first woman. I refused to have another ... (112 words)

Will dating her neighbour mess with my mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 February 2008 (?) age 36-40 - I've been totally messed up from my ex, she is all i think about and i miss her soo much even though its been 8mnths or so since we broke up as she was my first love, but this new girl im seeing lives 5 doors down from her, is it a good idea to get inviolved with her,she seems ... (100 words)

He expects me to pay for more than I can afford. Can I sort this without leaving?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6141 days ago

27 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I hate to discuss finances, but I know that money tends to be the leading cause of marital arguments and divorce, so technically this is a relationship question. I work full time and I make $14.50 per hour. I used to get overtime but because business is slow my company has ... (438 words)

Should I give her another chance, or has she hurt me too much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6104 days ago

27 February 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have recently been contacted by an ex girlfriend, whom I haven't seen for 7 years. We have met up a couple of times recently and seem to get on as well as we always did, but I'm unsure if I should try to get back together with her or just move on. We initially dated ... (241 words)

I want to be free of my ex. Did he ever even love me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6141 days ago

27 February 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello All, I broke up with my child's father around 1 year ago. He has moved on with several women, but still remains contact with me. I still see him as a user, but mainly just a guy who will never accomplish anything in life. But the sad thing is I stil have feelings 4 hi... (288 words)

How do I show up to have a Bikini wax?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to get my Bikini waxed but I am a very self conscious person and I am very anxious at the thoughts of going because I don't know if I should wear full undies or a thong or what... Please help me relax and offer your best advise... ... (49 words)

Can she really have stopped loving me so suddenly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 February 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend went for 8 months together, it was very exciting and we shared everything together. We had the perfect bond of best friends before and also during the relationship. The week of this Valentine's Day we got into a fight..it didn't last very long, she forgave ... (158 words)

Is this worth persuing or do I just drop it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

27 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've known this guy for 5 years and we have always had a strong connection, nothing has ever happened as I have been in a relationship for the past 10 years and he has been in a relationship for 3 years. Thing is a few weeks ago we both met at a friend's party and got cl... (160 words)

OMG!!! Why did I let my friend kiss me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6072 days ago

27 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and he makes me really happy, I love him so much. In that time I've had a few men interested in me, and I've never wanted to or felt the need to cheat. However last week my male friend, who I've known for a while has liked me, tried to ... (194 words)

She was dating a co-worker that I didn't know about until I had reason to check her texts messages...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6140 days ago

27 February 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - She was dating a co-worker that I didn't know about until I had reason to check her texts messages. If I had not done so I believe she would have kept it going. She told me that she has only been out with him twice once with other co-workers and another time with her ... (125 words)

When I get angry he calls me mad and when I get upset he has little compassion!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I just feel total resentment for my boyfriend of 6 years. We don't live together, he is 20 years older than me (43), we have sex maybe once a month. I broke it off last year and he met someone else (just a fling, we got back together and he crept back into his old ways. Every ... (234 words)

Hmmmm.... do I believe her story? Do you???

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

27 February 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I left town for two weeks and when I came back one of our condoms was missing. She told me that her daughter's dad tried to have sex with her and she said no and he slept on the floor in the living room where I pay rent. She said she was out by herself one night and got to ... (89 words)

I love him with every bit of my soul, even though I'm constantly getting my feelings hurt. Advice here would be greatly appreciated!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

27 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating this guy since August of 2006. We've lived together since November of 2006. We've known each other since elementary, and just prior to our dating that August, his girlfriend of 13 years broke up with him. We did jump into our relationship quickly after that, ... (361 words)

All this negativity is making me doubt whether getting married is the right thing to do - even though we do both love each other dearly.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

27 February 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi my girlfriend (38) and I have been together 9 months and are due to get married in April. My girlfriend found out she was pregnant in January but is afraid to tell her elderly father as she fears his reaction to her being pregnant before she is married (he is a Jehovah's ... (487 words)

I feel I'm overdoing it, as I even do it at work... Should I be ashamed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend, began to send dirty text messages the other day, i really enjoyed it and ended up having to go to the bathroom at work at masturbate. It was rather embrassing. I try to get the dirty conversations going all the time because it turns me on sooo much. Over ... (128 words)

Can I get pregnant without intercourse?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

27 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend had a bit of sexual fun the other day. Well not the other day, bout 2 weeks ago now. He came, but his penis was not in side me as i am not ready to have full on sex yet. He fingered me about 10 minutes after he came but his penis touched my vagina but did ... (159 words)

Is he taking her away from me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 February 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My grilfriend and i have been dating for 1 year and 2 months now and been living together for 6 of those. She's paranoid because her two ex- boyfriends cheated on her. She therefore thinks that i am going to do the same. She is talking to a friend(male) of hers on a chat... (155 words)

She's pregnant but has been bleeding for two weeks now. What advice can I give?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6141 days ago

27 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - A friend of mine doesn't have periods for two months. A pregnancy test showed she's pregnant (I think some 4-5 weeks). And now she had some bleeding, it began two days ago, she's really worried and frustrated. Can it mean smth's wrong with the baby? What should she do? Is it o... (61 words)

Why is he keeping me a secret?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

27 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Been dating this guy for a while. He's not willing to introduce me to any of his friends or family. He's been divorced for the last 4 years or so and still talks a lot about his ex and what has happened and still doing things for her. The sex is great and our relationship is w... (88 words)

We have very different views on showing affections. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there, my husband, Rick is one of those clingy types; He always wants to spend every waking moment with me. I’ve always thought of him as quite possessive. But I suppose, the most annoying thing about him is that he is always declaring his love for me every few seconds. At ... (267 words)

Her religion holds her back, but I want her so much! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

27 February 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 22 years old and i like a girl who is 18 years old lives in my neighbourhood.we both are very good firends.she always asks about me to all my friends whenever i am not around hanging out with them. I told her that i like her many times but she denied having any feelings for ... (187 words)

I've moved on but my ex wont leave me alone. How do I convince him without hurting him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi..i need help...i left my husband 5 months ago, i am now in a new relationship with another man, who happens to be a work college of my ex husband,i was with my husband for 7 yrs and have 2 children with him. My ex is saying that the man am with now will not show any ... (124 words)

Whatever happened to the days of romance?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 February 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Whatever happened to those days of those true passionate romance? You know the ones like Romeo and Juliet. Their passion for each other was not only idyllic, but powerful and sexy. They never once hesitated in expressing and showing their love and affections for one another. ... (183 words)

I really want to have sex with him , but I just think I'll end up pregnant, what can I do to get over this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6140 days ago

27 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for two years now and we have never had sexual intercourse. We have played around a lot with other practices such as oral sex but the one reason I have always shied away from intercourse is that I am absolutely terrified of getting pregnant. I am... (315 words)

Help me, I'm being used!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi ok im 18 i know thats young, but anyway, theres this guy, lets call him (geoff) um well geoff and i go way bak. our dads worked together and we wer good friends. then he moved, hes 3 years older than me, but i hadnt seen him in ages. i usd to have a crush on him when we wer ... (144 words)

I want a sexual relationship with my mother in-law! Has anyone experienced this?

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27 February 2008 (M) age 41-50 - I've seen this topic brought up a few times, but I thought I'd ask advice from anyone here that might have experience on this. I know - this is horrible to say or think, but I really hope to make this work so spare me the preaching. I am extremely attracted to my mother-in-... (173 words)

What do I write on my ex's birthday card?... I still love her.

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27 February 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, so i dont know how to explain this or anything so here it goes. My ex's birthday is in a few days and i want to send her a birthday e-card. I just dont want to say Happy Birthday I am usually so good with words but im at lost for some here, guess the reason i am having ... (84 words)

She isnt in a hurry to marry me, and told me to find someone else if I cant wait. Is she trying to discourage me?

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27 February 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Am a guy of 27,i've been dating a lady since 1999.Last year i presurise that we should get married but she told me to wait till end of 2009 and if i'll not wait she can release me to look for another.Could she be trying to discourage me or what?Kindly advice,Thanks ... (53 words)

Why won't he french kiss me anymore?... he does everything else

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27 February 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My longtime boyfriend of several years used to french kiss me (really well) all the time during foreplay and sex. Now he will go down on me and is very oral sexually EXCEPT when it comes to French kissing. He will no longer French kiss me, only a "peck", ever. I have not ... (79 words)

I found him in bed with another girl..we split, now he wants to get back together..Should I forgive and forget ?

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27 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been really impressed with this site so far, so I'm hoping that maybe someone out there can give me some advice, or share a similar story... I met my last boyfriend about 8 months ago, and we clicked immediately. We had text book compatability. Same interests, same ... (342 words)

I left her but she won't leave me! Please help!

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27 February 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I was in love with a girl for the last one year and due to her backgrounds i felt like leaving her. I told her that i've already got hooked somewhere else but she insisted that she will not leave me, she will continue loving me. Could you please advice me on what i can tell her ... (69 words)

Should I suggest she leaves her lying boyfriend for me?

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27 February 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright.. So I have been talking to this girl on and off for the past year now. Just like most people, she does not like to make decisions. She has been dating someone else(a real lying pos) for the last few months, but she still talks to me and she says she feels trapped in ... (320 words)

Should I give him up because he beat up my best friend's boyfriend?

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27 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy i realy like, but my best freind doesn't like him at all. What should i do? Should i risk a freindship for a relationship or try my hardest to get over the guy? Keep in mind she doesn't lik the guy 'cause he beat up her boyfreind.... (50 words)

I've just split with my girl but I want to meet someone new straight away. Is this right?

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27 February 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I just broke up with my girlfriend. In this relationship I really didn't think I was treated well. She didn't pay much attention to me and couldn't show me ANY affection. After going out for two months she couldn't kiss me. I want to know, is it odd for me to immediately ... (100 words)

I think I'm truly in love with my ex. I don't know though!?

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27 February 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - dear cupid, does he really miss me even though he said that he isnt in love with me anymore?? i dont know what to do!!! i still care about him though and he still cares about me!!! but just not in love with me like he used to be!! but the thing is that i cant get over him... (101 words)

My wife has a low sex drive, I can live with it but would really like if she gave me blowjobs, any ideas to convince her?

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27 February 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a sad and serious problem. I have been married to a fantastic woman whom I love very much for almost 5 years. But our sex life is not satisfying for me. She has a very low sex drive and basically only likes the missionary position and giving me a hand job. I ha... (218 words)

I'm 14 and want to know how I can attract girls and how will I know if this girl likes me??

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27 February 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hi im a 14 year old boy when im round girls i get shy and go red and get words in a muddle i also dont no what to talk about to a girl i like this girl but im not too sure wether she likes me?? how can i tell wether she likes me how can i ask for hir number ... (70 words)

I want to know if he really likes me, but I don't want my friends playing Cupid!

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27 February 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, I'm a preteen girl and I have truly fallen in love for the first time in my life. The guy is a year older than me, but we get along really well and he definitely doesn't care about my age. He was actually the one who started up a conversation with me one day, and from that ... (269 words)

Can you fall pregnant if you still take a period?

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27 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Can you be pregnant if you're still getting your period??? ... (10 words)

I found out my girlfriend of 7 years was having relations with another man...

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27 February 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - This is probalbly the dumbest question there is.... I found out my girlfriend of 7 years was having relations with another man. This was last April that I found out. It's almost been a year of recovery and trying my best. Well everything was fine up until today when I see... (111 words)

He's dying......And I think I'm going to break....

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27 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I fairly recently split up with an ex... I was very much in love with him.... but there was a big distance between us and I very rarely saw him... I was so unhappy I ended things. Since I have found a lovely guy nearer... who I am happy with.... But of course I still care very ... (172 words)

I slept with my ex who has a new girlfriend and now I'm really confused.

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27 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I made a huge huge mistake last nite!! My ex boyfriend and I ended badly because he really hurt me but we both new we loved each other still but he needed some space. He now has a new girlfriend whom he's been with for about a month, and they've recently been having fittes ... (320 words)

I can't pull my foreskin back all the way when it is erect only when it is flacid, I am really worried...

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27 February 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a 14 year old male who is uncircumsized and I can't pull my foreskin back all the way when it is erect only when it is flacid, I am really worried because I don't want this to affect my sex life, for I am a virgin and am going to start having sex soon... Should I pull it ... (112 words)