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writes:Well, I have e problem...I have a bestfriend. Shes been my BFF since 6th grade. Her and her ex broke up over a year ago.. but she loved him and claims "she always will...he was her first love". Well, now I LOVE him, i dont know what to do, I love them both...please help!!!
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reader, happy9497 +, writes (21 February 2008):
this is there just a lil comment yes,husbands are suppose to be forever but a boyfriend hell no they come and go. these days husbands and boyfriends are neck and neck (look at divorce rate) as I said b4 and will say again if she's been your friend since 6th grade than thats a friendship I don't think u should jeopardize, im sure ya'll have been through alot and y put your friendship on da line for her ex and being dat she is still in love with him its gonna be a disaster like I said. good luck girl on what u do but please don't
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2008): Maybe it would help to put yourself in her shoes and think how you would feel if she went out with an ex boyfriend of yours that you still had feelings for.
It's not worth losing a friend over, please don't do it.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (21 February 2008):
 If she is a true friend, she should not stand in your way .After all , the boy does not like her anymore. In reality it is easier said than done.
If you really love this boy , you may have to decide who do you want to spend your time with or who is more important to you?
Friends come and go....but b/f or husbands will be the one that walks with you to the end of the world.
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reader, happy9497 +, writes (21 February 2008):
DON'T BREAK THE CODE! YOU DO NOT GO AGAINST THE FRIENDS CODE NO MATTER THE CIRCUMSTANCES. My question is how do u call her your bff if you wanna talk,mess,f**k her man,her ex,or anyone she has ever carried on with, you just don't do that to your friends and if u do, than she really wasn't your friend(in your case bff) to begin with and if u do, what does that say about you? MEN (BOYS) COME AND GO BUT FRIENDS AND FAMILY ARE FOREVER! REMEMBER THAT WHEN YOU ARE WITH HER OR HIM. as for him, I would suggest that you get ova it quick cuz its a disaster waiting to happen.
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