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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I get my husband to start paying attention to me,instead of masturbating to porn?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for 8 years and lately I feel that he doesn't think that I am attractive. He is always looking at pictures of naked girls online. He admits that he likes masturbating to these pictures even though usually I am home and more than willing. He ... (269 words)

What does it mean when a man says 'love you' not 'i love you'??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - What does it mean when a man tells you 'Love You', not 'I Love You'?... (16 words)

I've made my mind up...what are my rights??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6141 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age - It is thanks, by and large, to the really helpful replies and other articles on this website that I have now found the strength to tell my unfaithful, lying, controlling, husband that I will no longer tolerate his awful behaviour to me. While I was making up my mind I couldn't ... (577 words)

Could he love her and love me but can't choose? Help me understand this guy!.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age - i have been seeing this man for 22 months now. everyone turned their back on him even his girlfriend she put him out of their house. he moved in with me 3 months ago i was by his side the whole time i met his family,friends and he told them that i was his girlfriend. to make ... (230 words)

I unloaded my stress on him, so he broke up with me and started to drink. What now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know what to do, I am 17 and have been with my boyfriend for 11 months. We have always had a very exciting relationship, with really strong emotions. But last week I was so stressed out and I took it out on him, which I felt so guilty about. I was so stressed and I ... (218 words)

How do you become happy and content without a partner and close friends in your life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I just want to know, how do u become happy and cotnent without a partner in your life and without close friends? some times i feel very lonely and have tried to meet people but they never stay long. for the past few years i have felt like i've lost my way and a bit of myself. ... (59 words)

How to convince my wife to have kinky sex? And also suggest a MFM threesome?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

25 February 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - OK here it goes. I would like to know what I can do to get my wife to have kinky sex. What I mean by that is I would like her to put on a strap-on on and screw my ass. There are other things i would like to do with her but she shuts me out everytime I ask if we can try. I am ... (122 words)

I felt so hurt, used, betrayed by this man, whose son I gave birth to. There is also another man in my life, whom I actually love but I'm very confused!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6140 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I need some advice, a different insight, well i'm sure you will understand... Well my question is basically who should I choose? You will understand why in a minute... I'm sorry if this long but I have been pondering this decision for some time and going back and forward... (1293 words)

What to expect from a first appointment, after being diagnosed with Polycystic Ovary Syndrome?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6144 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i am nearly 16 and i have recenly been diagnosed with PolyCystic Ovary Syndrome and i have been refered to hospital. i have had an ultrasound and internal exam at my doctors and a special clinic to diagnose it but i am soon to have my first appointment with my consulta... (111 words)

He said he hated cheatings but cheated himself! What to do about our long distance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6134 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been with him a very long time (over 2 years) he used to tell me that he hated cheats and lies i thought i could always trust him, its a long distant relasionship. I love him but it hurts, recently i found out he cheated. He says it was a mistake and hates the girl, but ... (121 words)

My gf, to whom I offered everything, told me she likes someone at work. What next?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

25 February 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I just dont understand what went wrong, but my girlfriend of 4 years had just told me today the worst news I could possibliy ever hear. She told me she liked someone at work and that she wanted to be with him. I have never expected this to happen because I have never done ... (456 words)

I feel bad I'm thinking of my gf while masturbating, as if I'm disrespecting her!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6062 days ago

25 February 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I wanted to know, please. Just about every time I masturbate I think of my girlfriend, afterwards I feel bad that I would think of her in such a dirty way, is this normal?... (34 words)

Am I unattractive, for my husband to prefer porn to being with me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my husband have been together for 5 years. lately he acts like I am not even here. i feel like he does care about me anymore. i love this man with all of my heart and i dont want to ever lose him. he doesnt seem interested in me in the bedroom anymore. he would rather ... (125 words)

Would sex be a problem because of my hight?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. I am a 6"1 girl and haven't had sex before. I am nicely built (slim) and quite pretty and popluar, but am worried that boys won't want to have sex with me because I am so tall. What is it like for a boy of similar hight or just slightly shorter than me? I also worry that ... (78 words)

I really like this girl I met on Valentines, but she hasn't respned to my texts in 2 days. Do you think she likes me back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

25 February 2008 (M)

- Ok on valentines night i went to a dating quiz night with a female colleague from work. really i went to keep her company as she is desperate to meet a man, and she had no one else to go with. To cut a long story short a girl turned up who completely bowled me over, she was ... (289 words)

Is my teacher affecting me or is it just me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6128 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I am mentally unstable. I love my teacher who is... well... mean. I keep breaking down ever since I met him. Is it just me or is he effecting me?... (32 words)

How do I keep up in this fast paced world?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

- I feel so stressed right now. The world is moving so quickly, everything passes by like a blur and I find it so hard to keep up. I hate living in this world of deadlines where I drop behind and fall down. It's all getting too much for me and I just can't be bothered with ... (78 words)

In love with him, but he isn't with me and he has a girlfriend. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6139 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Cupid, I have a boy problem... you see there is this boy and I really like him I mean my heart beats faster just thinking about him. The thing is he has a girl friend. I have already told him that I liked him but he kind of veers away from the subject. I need help I am n... (87 words)

How do I get through to my older lover?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am dating an older man. HI am 30 he is 43 he has not had a relationship for 12 years and is frightened of getting hurt. I have now told him i love him and his response was well love is not a word to use lightly and he doesn't beleive me...i would do anything for this man i ... (75 words)

He isn't sure what he wants, and it's making ME confused. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 17, and me and my boyfriend have just gone though serious trouble. It started when we argued over soeting stupid, i was drunk and overeacted, and threw my phone at him. He got really angry over the next few days although i tried to apologise and drop it, he even was wierd ... (180 words)

I'm 13 years old. Am I still classified as a 'little girl'?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 13 year old and I need people's opinions. If your a 13 year old girl, are u still a little girl? ... (23 words)

Is 13 too young an age to date?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm a 13yd old girl and I just got asked out by a boy(13) in my class. I already knew he liked me and I only like him because he is sweet to me. So I said yes to go out with him because I only like him a little. I'm also allowed dating now. Do you think 13 is too young to ... (74 words)

My co-worker invites me out, could he like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I met someone at work who i really like. He invites me sometimes for coffee and lunch. He also asked me out for dinner with a few friends. Not sure if i am reading too much into it or not.Do you think he likes me and should i tell him how i feel? Thank y... (67 words)

He just returned from Afghanistan and ended it with me but he won't tell me why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My other half is a soldier and has just got back from afghanistan, he has been strange since he came back but now he has finished me and he wont tell me why. What do i do?... (37 words)

60's and dating but his family doesn't accept me. How do I get through to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6144 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age - My boyfriend and i have been dating for 3 years and 3 months. he broke up with me back in july and even though he denies it i do belive that his adult children and their spouses forced him to do this. we finally got back together and now i have been staying with him. i still ... (673 words)

How do you regain confidence after a few bad relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6139 days ago

25 February 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - i think am paranoid for no reason. please help. the thing is no relationship has ever worked so well for me. i broke the heart of my first girl friend. not that i cheated on her but i got angry when i heard she had read a letter i wrote to her, appologising for somethin... (331 words)

How can I overcome my insecurities?

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25 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hiya im 20 years of age! i have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and since day 1 i have been paranoid! im so paranoid if he goes out in his car i think hes going to meet another girl! when i first met him he used to tell me he loved me all the time now i got to say it ... (157 words)

My mom is protective but I want a boyfriend. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i really want a boyfriend but my mam is really overprotective of me and hardly lets me outside the house i dont no why but i just really want a boyfriend! any advice on what i should do?... (38 words)

He keeps hiding dirty pictures and letters from his ex....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6144 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for a year and have asked him on numerous occassions to get rid of his dirty pictures and letters of ex-girlfriends but everytime I find something he tells me there is nothing else and that I could look for myself. And when I search his room I always ... (129 words)

Is he playing games on me?????

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6144 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everyone, i just got conffused, i mate this guy on a job trainig two months before, and we r getting close to each other, he used to come to my room in the evening and we talk for hours, we share secrets and everything. and one night on our get togther party, we kissed. we ... (204 words)

Is he doing this to make me jealous or just being friendly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I began dating a guy in May, last year. Overall, the relationship was good but we did have our ups and downs. We decided in October that we'd break it off temporily to make us stronger but during this break i had sexual contact with guy from work that i'd known from about a ... (359 words)

Do we really belong with each other?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My present boyfriend and I have been together for 7 years and I am questioning your relationship. I have had 2 miscarriages. Do we really belong with each other.... (29 words)

Why was she embarassed at the prospect of all her bush being seen through panties but not about the many hairs curling from under her panties?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6125 days ago

25 February 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - A few weeks ago I took some professional photos of a beautiful Caribbean girl with very large breasts. I had asked her to put on underwear that was slightly transparent. She refused to put it on because of the panties being a bit see-through. I deduced from this that she was ... (130 words)

Vaginal balloon............. Is it normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

25 February 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I was fingering my girl the other day and was playing with her Gspot for sometime while she was on her stomach when I felt all of the sudden that her vagina from insside was so wide and like a balloon...the walls of the vagina also became so soft and as her vagina was like a ... (86 words)

I found out she lied to me, should I confront her?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

25 February 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Regretfully, I snooped on my girlfriend's emails to either confirm or deny some suspicions. I found out she had lied to me about seeing a particular guy I had specifically questioned her about a while ago. She even made me believe her lies. But now I know the truth I feel ... (176 words)

How do I cope with his anger problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5941 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age - I came out of a 6 year relationship with a man, to be with my current partner who I have now been with for 2 years. It was a difficult time at the beginning as I struggled to break the tie with my last boyfriend for the first 2 or three months and consequently this left my ... (358 words)

Do you think this will make his family look down on me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6144 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf proposed and I said yes. Now the thing is that he is from a normal family, married parents whereas both my parents are re-married. They live on opposite sides of the world. They won't even be able to make it to the wedding because of money issues. His family is wealthy. ... (110 words)

What do I do, I love her so much but she doesn't love me...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

25 February 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - OK, this is a lil long but stick with it, this is so hard for me to write, OK,I started to really like this girl in college, we got on really well and we're close very quickly, we would talk for hours everyday about anything, and I told her I liked her and wanted to go out... (229 words)

Cheating fiance - help me please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

25 February 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I found out that my fiance has feelings for another guy. We have had a stressfull few months,she started a new job, im about to lose mine, im clearly suffering from stress and depression but not getting any support from her, she ended up turning to this guy. i dont know what to ... (79 words)

I cheated. What should I do now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been with my man for 3 years and things are great we are getting married in a few months but recently i had it off my ex, help since we split 6 years ago we have remained good friends and now this what to do?... (47 words)

My boyfriend said he will dump me if I ever cut myself. Now I don't know if I want to be with him anymore. Help.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

- My bf was recently telling me how a friend of his broke up with his gf because she was cutting herself. I was shocked that someone could break up with someone they are supposed to love when they need them so much. I was even more shock to hear my bf say he would do the same if ... (231 words)

I think my ex might be involved in hoax letters to me. Should I confront him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Something strange is going on and I'm unsure what to do about it. Firstly I had a valentines card sent to my place of work. I immediately knew it was a hoax because they referred to something that just wasn't possible plus I was suspicious as the card was not handwritten.... (349 words)

Secrets came out 8 months before our wedding. What now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am getting married in Oct BUT suddenly a whole bunch of stuff has occurried. 1) I never dealt with an abortion I had 13 years ago 2) He has not disclosed a criminal act he did prior to our getting together - we've been together for 12 years and he told me 2 days ago the he ... (90 words)

Does masturbation change the shape of the vagina?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6141 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - 2 virgins, one masturbates and other doesnt is there any difference in their pussy shape?... (15 words)

What can I do to get over the hurt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

- When I get hurt by a guy badly I try to hurt myself- either by cutting, eating barely anything to the point i get severe pains in my stomahce or over exercising to the point that I almost faint. And no i dont think im fat or anything. I havent done the cutting in years ... (227 words)

I can't seem to get over the past, but is it always best to speak up about my feelings?

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25 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Well i'm back again. My mind keeps thinking about the situation before with my fiance and my godsister. I don't quite know how to deal with it because one day i am fine and the next day i'm mad and zapping out. It also ran across my mind to get even with my godsister but what ... (197 words)

Things have cooled off, but we both want to make it work. Please help

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

25 February 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my girlfriend have been together since we were about 18, 3 and a half years. We've had our troubles and arguments, and on the most part got through them. We got to the stage where we were having silly arguments a lot, over petty things. We spoke and my girlfriend said ... (253 words)

He doesn't want to have sex until he loses weight, how to convince him to reconsider?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am writing to you about this problem I'm having. Me and my husband have a good sex life, but recently his latest suggestion has made me feel sick. I wore sexy lingerie in bed one night, but got no response sexually from him. I asked him why he didn't want sex with me... (210 words)

He ended our relationship quite abruptly, will he ever come back to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i was in a realionship with my partener for seven years. we have a 5 year old daughter together 3 weks again he telephoned me and told me it was over and hed meet someone else he has started a new relationship with her and i'm totally heartbroken i absolutley adored him he was ... (80 words)

Should I tell my boyfriend I went back to another guy's house after a night out?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - This is kind of the situation i am in. I have been with my boyfriend for 15 months and do love him loads. Never have broken up or had a break before. But recently i found myself going out and flirting more and kind of wishing i was single. Me and my boyfriend were arguin like ... (232 words)

Why do I always have the feeling I'm gonna screw up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6145 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay...so i'm in a bit of a dilema... my boyfriend just got back from basic training and we are really happy together... but when we are apart i get this feeling that i'm going to screw it up... i get afraid that i might hurt him and it makes me nervous about being with him... ... (80 words)

How do I know when I cum?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6106 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So basically I'm kinda confused and think there might be something wrong with me. Guys are always asking me to tell them when I'm about to cum during sex. This so frustrating and annoying because 1. I have a hard time talking about thing like that (esp. during sex) and 2. I ... (118 words)

Was I being oversensitive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - me and my lover are both in our late 30's and we get on really well, trouble is, on the internet we both use this chatsite and we both leave messages to other friends on there,both male and female......now my problem is,my fella does get women flirt with him but he doesn't ... (121 words)

I'm thinking ther only way to accept her past is to HAVE a past myself. I feel the need to cheat on my gf.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

25 February 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, let's start from the beginning. My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost six months. We are very close and we love each other dearly. We also see each other almost everyday. My problem is that she is more "open" then I am. She is the first person I've had sex wi... (510 words)

Looking back, I see that I was more unhappy then I was happy in my marriage. Should I continue this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6128 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I always argue on everything, and he is so pessimistic unlike me. What to do? I have been married for 8 years now. we were our first ones and because of that it was very hard to get along! We have huge communication issues. he sees the glass half empty I see... (280 words)

My girlfriend returned home, can we ever be back together in the future even after others?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

25 February 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Last year in August 2007 I met a girl through a friend I met at my job. She was from japan and had been here 6 months prior to meeting me and had 6 months left before completing her year of English school study. I am learning japanese and I know enough that we communicated fine ... (904 words)

The irony is my mistress has finally managed to leave her husband, but I have remarried.

This question has 39 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

25 February 2008 (M)

age - I was married to a clinically depressed woman for 12 years. The depression killed her sex drive to the point of being almost non-existent for the last half of the marriage. Eventually, I turned to the affections of another woman. She was in an equally unfulfilling ... (669 words)

Any one have advice on how to become less needy and dependent, aside from getting a hobby?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I know that I'm an extremely dependent and needy person. I see my boyfriend at least an hour every day, but it's at night for about an hour. He comes over to my house and we pretty much go straight to bed. He's got a very heavy homework load with his major. I'm not sure a... (276 words)

The man I am dating goes to social events and does not invite me, should I suggest him that I'd like to accompany him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6145 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - The man i am dating the last year sometimes he goes out to social occasions without telling me to go with him. He usually tells me after, that he went to a social event. Should i tell him that i would like to invite me to these events or not telling him anything and act like i ... (68 words)

When I offer him oral he ejaculates very quickly, is this bad?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6145 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - this one guy when i give him blowjobs and stuff he ejaculates really quickly is that bad?... (17 words)

I don't want to make it too forceful or obvious but how do I find out if he likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello! I have a question about a guy I really like and I want to know what advice I can get.I work in a bank and there is a guy who comes in once or sometimes twice a week.I never really paid much attention to him because I was in a long term relationship which recently ended. ... (279 words)

How to tell him I'm not ready for sex without being rude?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - me and this guy i got with i thought he was just the type to just kiss but one day we went to his house to play some games, but then he ended up taking off clothes but i didn't let him take off my pants but he was about to so,it was a little bit rushing and i don't really know ... (72 words)

He has a girlfriend and I am starting to fall for him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6144 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Since the beginnging of school (college not h/s) there's this guy who has been very flirty with me even though I've always thought of him as out of my league. I've always been under the impression he had a girl back home, but we never really talked about that.Now I know for ... (132 words)

How do I get rid of these nagging insecurities I have?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6145 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) age 36-40 - Before I started dating my boyfriend I had no issues concerning body image. Sure, I wanted to lose weight, but but only because I REALLY had to lose about 15 lbs (I already lost them... don't really know how... but whatever... no exercise, nothing... at least not consciously, ... (517 words)

I asked my husband for a break because he is always out but now he's found someone else... will he ever come back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I asked my husband for a break as he is always out. I want him home and he says I'm not coming home. I ask is he ever coming home and his reply is I don't know what the future holds. He wants me to move on but I can't until I hear the words I'm never coming home. I am heart ... (113 words)

I am considering giving my daughter a sibling, even though I have severe problems with my partner, would this be this selfish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6145 days ago

25 February 2008 (?) age 41-50 - ok so here it goes. I've been with my boyfriend for 5 yrs and we have a 3yr old daugther. our relationship is not the greatest. he has cheated on me before(more that once) and right now we went from living together to me and my daughter living at my parents and him at his ... (119 words)

I don't trust my boyfriend, its hard financially, but I want another baby, advice please?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6141 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so I have a question. Hopefully someone can help. I'm a 24 yr old with a beautiful 3 yr old daughter. Lately I've been eager to have another child eventhough I know I'm definitely not ready. I'm living with my parents due to financial reasons. I'm with my dauhters father but ... (173 words)

She confessed she explored her bisexual side, will this revelation shadow our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6145 days ago

25 February 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - i wanted to kno more about my girlfriend and she told me i was her first kiss and tonight she told me that she was bi and that she preformed a sexual act on a girl i love her and i dont wanna break up with her she is now cryin i love her and i dont know what to do help me!!!!!... (63 words)

Is it true that men want what they can't have?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - is it true that men want what they cant have? I've been told many times that the reason why the guy i used to like started talking to me again is because he found out that someone else is interested in me and im over him.Now he has been trying to talk to me every single s... (65 words)

Has anyone out there been through an abusive relationship and felt like it was almost too late to start over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age - I've been living with my boyfriend for almost eight years, and during that time he has developed a serious drinking problem. At the beginning it was a wonderful love affair. But now he spends almost every night drinking with his friends. Whether he goes out or not, he ends each ... (303 words)

How to show my teacher that I'm available without settling our friendly relationship? How to tell if he has (supressed, due to regulations) sexual feelings towards me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 17 (skipped 2 years of school, now a freshman in college), my teacher is 32. We're intellectual equals and he thinks i'm very smart and funny, and in class he singles me out and playfully banters with me in front of the others.. basically,i get special attention in front ... (317 words)

Small amount of blood during sex, and my period has been absent for the past two months. Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ok lately when me an my bf have sex once were done i poor out with blood for a few secs then it stops this dose not happen all the time but most im not saw or anything, i been skippin my period the last two months just wonderin if that is why??? ... (53 words)

What is going on with my Air Force (and careless) boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4159 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating this guy for almost four years now. We are the same age and graduated high school together. In October he joined the Air Force and went to basic training and now he is in tech school. I went to college and he wrote me about three letters from basic and they... (563 words)

He's big, but he cums too quickly, how can we deal with this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have only been together for alittle over a month and just recently started having sex. My boyfriend has quite a big penis. We have had sex about five times now and each time he ejaculates quite quickly which doesn't give me enough time to cum also. We are ... (81 words)

My live-in boyfriend is very distant, I start thinking it is my fault!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6145 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - What can I do to get him to communicate to me ? My boyfriend and I have been together since Labor Day 2007 and he has already moved in, everything has been great until the past month. He acts distance from me and when asked if there is a problem I get told no. The time we spend... (96 words)

Any advice please on how to reach my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6144 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to get in contact with my ex, i have a boyfriend for a couple of years now and he later moved on to a new girlfriend after realizing i was with someone new he knew he was done in my eyes. I broke up with him but he beg me to stay with him but i caused some trouble for ... (231 words)

New relationship, how long should I wait before having sex, I'm 28?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6145 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - how long should a nice girl wait before getting naked w/ a new boy? i'm 28 and dating again for the first time in years. my ex was the first guy i ever went 'all the way' with, and we'd been dating close to two years before we did (i was 25 when we started seeing each othe... (191 words)

My ex was not right for me, my new lover lied to me and I had to terminate my pregnancy. How do I cope with these burdens?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6123 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am going through some major anxiety and i believe its because of my most recent loses. I was pregnant with my ex of 2 years' baby. We were supposed to get married but when we shouldve been growing together and being there for one another is when he became more and more di... (1407 words)

Do I push for sex or respect my girlfriend's wishes?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

25 February 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i want to have sex but my girlfriend doesnt want to until engagement. Should i try to push for sex or just respect her wishes and hope for the best??... (31 words)

I'm torn between my girlfriend and my best friend...

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25 February 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, i gots a problem i'm really torn between my GF and my best friend thats a girl. My GF i really care about and would hate to hurt her, we have been going out for a month and have't gone further than making out she's 17, i'm 15. My other friend, lets call her Rachel is my ... (208 words)

Is my husband having an affair?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6019 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband has been working with his female assistant for about 8 months now. Up until the last month, I had not had reason to suspect anything that their relationship was anything other than professional. However, last month, one week he called her every evening after work ... (615 words)

I have a crush on a lesbian. Would it be awkward to tell her how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

25 February 2008 (M) age 30-35 - I've realized that having a deep crush on a lesbian is a very painful thing. Sometimes I wish she was just a girly girl. I don't know how to get over this. I think I expected too much as a friend. But hey I can't help it. She's still a girl to me when I look at her. Do yo... (84 words)

I am due to have a MRI scan and feel very nervous about hospitals. What to do about this state of anxiety?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6139 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello, this isn't a relationship question but I've seen some good answers regarding various things on here so I thought I'd post this question: I have to have an MRI scan done soon and I have worked myself up into such a state of anxiety about it that I'm actually concerned ... (180 words)

Will this man marry me, or am I wasting my time?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating a guy for over 3 yrs - He says he loves me - My b-day just came and went and he jokingly told others his gift to me was that I could be his friend for another year - I am so sad - this is the same man who says he loves me - I don't get it - We both are ... (349 words)

He has bad migrains for which doctors could not provide efficient treatment - our relation has deteriorated due to his irascibility, please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6139 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, Please help! I'm 21 years old in my last year of uni and my 24 year old boyfriend of 8 months has recently started work in the city. Although we have a long distance relationship we see each other roughly every 6 weeks for a couple of weeks. I have only been s... (694 words)

What is wrong with me that I can't get a boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - About a year ago a met this guy and I kind of liked him! We knew each other for a while and I thought he liked me too. We were talking one night on bebo in mail and I had enough of it and decided to tell him so I did and I asked him what about you do you like me and he goes ... (597 words)

Trapped in a relationship

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6136 days ago

25 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I am 20 years old, I have a 7 month old baby and I live with my boyfriend who is also my baby's father. We live with his mother. The thing about it is, I am not in love with him anymore and I want to move on with my life. The only problem is I am not financially ready to ... (176 words)

Should I keep talking to her or not?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6095 days ago

25 February 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone. Have a question that I hope some of you can help me with. Should I continue to see and talk to my ex? Its not all the time, every now and then. Sometimes we will meet out for dinner, or spend the day together. Sometimes, I am alright with it. Other times, ... (136 words)

Why does my girlfriend never open up to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6145 days ago

25 February 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been with my girlfriend for a little under 6 months and I have noticed she never seems to open up to me and I don't know what to do. Is this normal for girls?... (36 words)

If my friend reacts badly when I tell her I like her then our good friendship will probably be over. Please Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

25 February 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hey everybody, I really like one of my best friends and she has an idea that I do. I want to tell her but If I tell her and she reacts badly then our good friendship will probably be over. Please Help!... (45 words)