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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

She's out of my league... is she?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

22 February 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ok I know this girl at work, she's amazing, we share the same sense of humour. She's smart and we have a lot in common but I need to know if she likes me, we do all the flirty stuff etc but I don't know if she's just being friendly? Anyway she's well outta my league and I ... (107 words)

Is fate against us or will we ever be together...?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

22 February 2008 (F) age - 5 years ago I was moderating in a quiz room and met this wonderful man. We got on like a house on fire from the onset and eventually met 6 months later. I was reluctant to meet him as he was married and when we did so it was only as friends. We met a few times afterwards ... (909 words)

She wants my first medal, what does she mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6113 days ago

22 February 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm 15 and I like my 16 year old friend. We've been friends 4 about 4 months but she has a bf. We're both in track and field have 1 class (with her bf). lately we've been talking a lot. She was supposed 2 go 2 a track meet but she pulled out at the last second. I pretended ... (111 words)

I'm terrified in case I'm pregnant!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6110 days ago

22 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I had sex for the first time but it was unprotcted it was like a mistake.. I told my mum.. took the morning after pill between 30 - 40 hours after but how do I know if the pills worked? What are the signs to know it has? I'm really scared im pregnant ! Help me please... (60 words)

My boyfriend's friends and family are beginning to dislike me...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

22 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend’s family and friends don’t want him to be with me anymore because i don’t have a job and i’m not in college, they don’t understand that i have a hard time going out and doing stuff on my own and it’s hard just getting out of bed everyday. i’m really hurt because he ... (316 words)

How to get the passion back in my exes eye?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

22 February 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - From a womans point of view: how do I get my ex to fancy me again? We split up 6 months ago (my decision - I felt I couldn't give her what she wanted and rather than stringing her along I respected her and broke it off) but she stayed living with me for 4 months until she found ... (412 words)

I really like him, but does he like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

22 February 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I really like this guy at school but i don't know if he likes me back. The other day he was flirting with me. then he'll ask if i'm staying after school with him for tutoring, We talk in gym class, he listenes to my i-pod with me, We goof around in class, he even said bye to ... (93 words)

Does age really matter?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

22 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16 and for the last few months have been spending a lot of time with a neighbour and family friend. He's an amazing mentor and we read philosophy and poetry together. I've never been as close to anyone and he's my best friend. I know he feels the same and we've begun to ... (119 words)

What do you do if you've fallen for someone who you shouldn't have?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6114 days ago

22 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - What do you do if you've fallen for someone who you shouldn't have? I developed a strong friendship with a guy last year and it developed into intense feelings. He admitted he fell for me, and I him. trouble is he had a girlfriend. I had just come out of a very draining, messy ... (243 words)

Has my husband slept with this internet friend? Just how close are they?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6100 days ago

22 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, A few days ago I found out on my husband's e-mail that he is having an internet female friend. Going thru the mail he has talked to her about our 2 year old son, described himself and has asked her out for lunch. She sends him her personal problems and he finds the sol... (279 words)

I feel threatened that if I tell this guy my feelings he will ignore me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

22 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi guys need an answer asap explanations are below please help - I'm in grade 8 now ... and 1/2 First off, I moved to a different country when I was in grade 6. I was very very very quiet and shy then, and Ii don't usually talk to anybody, I spent my lunch breaks sittng on... (270 words)

Is there any man out there that's decent and right for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

22 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have dated men for years to realize that they aren't right for me. I see their flaws and see past them and I "deal with it".. in hopes that it may be forever. I am a caucasion Italian female. I'm trying to figure out a pattern but then even when I go for the greatest guy... (910 words)

I'm still living with him but he's told me he doesn't love me anymore. How do I leave him and move on with my life?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

22 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Time with friends, not with me. Now we break-up but we still living together because he cares about me and I can't leave him cuz I love him so much and that's the reason I'm still living in the same house. But it hurt me a lot because all the time when I see him get ready to ... (167 words)

Why is he leaving me behind? Please help!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

22 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex broke up with me about five months back now, he said he wasn't happy anymore, he didn't feel the same because he didn't see a future with us. Whenever I texted him regarding us, he just completely ignored me. When I asked for a second chance he texted saying' I don't ... (328 words)

Midlife crisis---What are the differences for men...and women?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

22 February 2008 (M)

age - What happens to guys vs. women when they go through the so called midlife crisis and at what age is it?... (21 words)

So many troubles and pressures and I'm only 14!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

22 February 2008 (?) age 30-35 - hi every one! I really need some help. I'm 14 and everything in my life seems to be going wrong and I'm scared if I get anything else to worry about or any more pressure I might do something stupid. Well let's start, my parents are splitting up and it's sooo awkward at hom... (331 words)

I really need so big time help on this one guys.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

22 February 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok well it all started when in met a girl on the net, and we have got to make it as fars as bf and gf as we as now seeing each other. Ok we are quite a distance from each other. She lives in West Yorkshire amd I live in the West Midlands. Now my gfs past has been very ro... (621 words)

Do any of you guys have any tricks that all males do to let girls know they're interested?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

22 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a question for all the guys. I like a guy right now but it's really hard to tell what's going on in his mind. Sometimes, I catch him looking at me, sometimes he just never looks at me when he has the oppurtunity to, from a close distance. I never know whether to think ... (88 words)

What's going on in his mind??.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

22 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I Have liked a guy for like 8 months and i can't seem to forget about him. I want to make sure I am ready to be over him before I begin trying and I want to make sure he's over me. But it's so hard to understand what's going on in his mind. But, when I do start getting over ... (70 words)

Since we're going out should I hold his hand?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4791 days ago

22 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 13yr old girl and I just got asked out by a boy in my class. He's 13 too and he's a real sweet person. I started going out with him today and he's talked to me today abit but he looks really shy. Since we're going out should I hold his hand? hug him? or kiss him? I'm ... (83 words)

Am I being immature and overreacting or should this relationship be ended based on these problems?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

22 February 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Dating question Guy I've been dating for 5 months. 1. He has a son he gets every wkend who I've met, but never get invited when they do things. Doesn't seem too big because it's a new relationship. 2. He works full and part-time as well. I see him about once a wk for 24 hours... (276 words)

I have really bad flatulence. Does anybody know any cures? What should I do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4366 days ago

22 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. Well I have a problem and this is not a joke even though it sounds funny. But for the past...I guess year, but especially for the past few months for sure, I always get gas everytime I eat. I have never had this before. I am trying to figure out what it could be. Its not ... (236 words)

I'm secretly dating him, should I continue?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

22 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 13yrd old girl who needs some peoples opinions. So I'm in grade 8 and a boy in my class likes me. He's 13 as well. I think he is very nice and all but I never realized he liked me until he asked me to the movies and he told me. He started taling to me more and more. I can ... (218 words)

What causes people to fall in love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

22 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey just curious here but i've always wondered what causes people to fall in love? I've never had a bf before and i like this lad who i'm friends with and these feelings all came on so suddenly about 3 months ago. Its like, oh i don't know, how do you fall in love? I obviously ... (72 words)

He said he wanted to be friends but then he told me to leave him alone!?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

22 February 2008 (F) age 41-50 - Hi! My ex bf insisted on being friends. I agreed but when I called last night he was rather mean and told me to let him live peacefully. I wasn't angry, not sad. Disappointed in myself for letting him treat me this way again. Where does he get off saying stuff like that whe... (66 words)

Old bf wants me back--what do I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6113 days ago

22 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - what should you do if an old boyfriend wants to get back with you ... (16 words)

She wants to hang out with her ex, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6113 days ago

22 February 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my girlfriend for 3 and a half months and my girl just out of a 3 year relationship and she still wants to hang out with her ex boyfriend every now and then but she tells me she doesnt have feelings for him anymore or anything , she tells me hes just a ... (74 words)

If I am wasting my time I have only got another 4 weeks before he leaves the company to have to deal with him and then I can get on with my life.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

22 February 2008 (F) - I came on here a few weeks ago about a bloke from work who seemed to be interested in me - turns out he was. We have now met a couple of times. We have text each other quite a bit with him saying he really enjoyed being around me. Unfortunately he is being made redundant f... (787 words)

Why did he stay in touch with his ex when she caused us so many problems?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

22 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - This has been bothering me for quite some time and I need some help with what to do. Back at the end of July I found out my boyfriend was talking to his ex over his cell phone, and basically hiding this from me. He ended talking to her on his own before I found out about... (591 words)

We were best friends til he met someone. I tried to forget him but I cant. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

22 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have best friend. we've been so close untill he met his new lover. I tried to forget him, but I can't. My heart always feel hurt when I didn't meet or talk with hi. Last time we met, he looks at me just like a lover. Full of love. When we fight, he ask apologize and he's... (110 words)

Did I do the right thing by telling him she isn't into him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

22 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I need some opinions on my situation. There's this girl I know who has been getting textx from a boy all the time, and you can tell he likes her. Problem is though, she hates him. He annoys her and she complains about him all the time. For example, at lunch she said, "Oh ... (238 words)

I'm torn between two guys that I like. Help!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

22 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some help. I'm stuck between two guys I like. One guy is nice and very smart, but only average. I know he likes me. But the other boy is smart and attractive and has a fabulous sense of humor and appreciation of cartoons like I do. The thing is, I don't think he likes ... (90 words)

If you use a condom when having sex, areyou still classed as a virgin?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6114 days ago

22 February 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I've got one curious question to ask you. If you use a condom when having sex, areyou still classed as a virgin? Please tell me, I asked my mum, she said ask your dad so I did but he said ask your mum etc etc. I can never get anywere with my family... (56 words)

My partner tried to choke me and I'm wondering if I should give him another chance... he says he'll never do it again.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

22 February 2008 (F)

age - My partner tried to choke me on one occasion and I am wondering if I should give him another chance. He says he loves me more than anything but he panicked and he's so sorry and says he will never hurt me again. He wants to get married - we were engaged and I gave him the ring ... (65 words)

I've fallen in love with my best friend's ex!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

22 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I'm in love with this guy... but my friend dated him and they broke up over a year ago, she kinda still likes him. So, I've been talking to him, and I've fallen in love, same with him, he's in love with me. I haven't been this happy in FOREVER, so what should I do? I ... (65 words)

I've hurt 2 great people... should I try to contact them and try to make it up again and be friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6116 days ago

22 February 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I was with this one girl *Jen* for 2.5 years. Things were good when we were away at school, but after moving home the first summer she got back into her old routine and really put me in the backseat. That was a big change for me because of how close and how much time we spent ... (287 words)

I never seem to find anyone that meets or is even close enough to what am looking for in a guy.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

22 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I never seem to find anyone that meets or is even close enough to what am looking for in a guy. My present boyfriend is unemployed and I feel he isn't making any attempt to get out of his present situation. My ex was opposite, hard working but not a very sincere person. ... (124 words)

I don't know if he's being truthful and find it hard to trust him now...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

22 February 2008 (?) age 51-59 - Last May 2007 I found 3 text messages on my husband's phone flirting with a woman, when I asked him he said it was just banter with a work colleague. He told me she worked in one of his nearest depots and only saw her ever few months and I believed him He told me her name was ... (238 words)

I would love a FFM 3-some with my boyfriend, he says he will but I don't think he's keen.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

22 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 19 year old female with a 21 year old boyfriend. We are in a very solid relationship and talk openly about sex. We have been talking and I brought up one of my fantasies of having a FFM threesome. I am all for it, I just feel the he isn't. I've asked him what he thought ... (109 words)

How do you convince your partner to give you a blow job without actually asking?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6106 days ago

22 February 2008 (M)

age - Do most women enjoy giving a blow job or do they do it because their mate pushed them to? How do you convince your mate to do it without you asking and many times giving you the ultimate rejection?... (39 words)

He's told me he doesn't want to be more than friends but we still "do stuff"!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6114 days ago

22 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I am 19 and at college. Over the last 2 years I have grown really close to one of my guy friends and for the last year I have been really attracted to him. For much of this year he flirted with me and even though I knew he liked another girl and was sleeping with hi... (259 words)

His age is holding him back on the sex front and it's frustrating me! Help!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

22 February 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been with this man 18 years older than me. We get on well and sex with him is fantastic. It's amazing he can have sex with me 2 or 3 times a week. A year on he is not as good as he used to be in bed. I know it's his age. But I am always horny round him. I feel bad ... (80 words)

I need a relationship...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6114 days ago

22 February 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am a 21 year old guy and radio presenter by occupation and I really want someone for a good friendship and relationship (not gay). I would love some of you to drop me an email here at Dear Cupid so we could be friends, I would really appreciate it. (Moderator note: pr... (65 words)

In love with my sisters ex, what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6101 days ago

22 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, about 4 months ago my sister split up with her boyfriend of 4 years. He is a lovely person, and my whole family love him and are still in contact with him, however, I have fallen in love with him, and he feels the same way about me. Since they started going through a ... (239 words)

This relationship puts a great financial strain on me. Should I continue being with her?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

22 February 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My girl friend does not make her exhusband pay child support for his 2 kids (because he is a whiny baby) he does nothing for his kids only on christmas. When they come to his house for the weekend, he does not have food for them most of the time. She has to buy food for them or ... (148 words)

I constantly worry I will never be as good as his ex. Am I being unreasonable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6116 days ago

22 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently joined a new college last september and have been going out a boy who i met there for 3 months now. I love him so soo much and i know he loves me back and he never gives me any reason to be jealous of his ex/s or anything.. but still i have this constant worry in the ... (308 words)

Do I have reason to be paranoid about them and express my lack of trust?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

22 February 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - hello, i love my girlfriend and we just had our 2 year anniversary. about a year and a half ago she went to china with her ex of 7years. she asked me before hand if i was ok with that and it was a pre planned arrangement with him before we got together. hes a dj and the reason ... (285 words)

Is she playing hard to get and what to do for her to accept me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6116 days ago

22 February 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - i asked this girl to be my girlfriend but she said she is too young to have a boyfriend at 18.when we are together she really enjoys my company and is very happy which made me wonder if she is only playing hard to get or serious. we eventually quarrelled after i kept on pers... (152 words)

Was it really an accident or is he just playing games with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

22 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everyone, i just got conffused, i mate this guy on a job trainig two months before, and we r getting close to each other, he used to come to my room in the evening and we talk for hours, we share secrets and everything. and one night on our get togther party, we kissed. we ... (200 words)

Should I let her go and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

22 February 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I Had a really intense and passionate fling with a girl who came over to study. She has been home in Holland for 2 weeks and is still with her boyfriend. We email nearly every day and text a bit to. The contact is fun and is dirty talking about what we did and when she comes ... (111 words)

I told him how I feel for him, should I also ask him out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6116 days ago

22 February 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have fallen for a guy who lives eighty miles away and only get to see him every 4 - 8 wks due to work commitments on both sides and small children from previous relationships. I really like him infact love him as I told him this when we last met up. I txt him daily to say g... (129 words)

I was forced to stop being in touch with a close friend because of my grilfriend's paranoid personality. Is this right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6116 days ago

22 February 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - After my girlfriend asked me to end all contact with a very good friend of ours, because we fancy each other, I am feeling heartbroken and depressive that I have lost such a close friend. I was forced to stop being in touch with said friend because of my grilfriends para... (280 words)

I tell my fiancee I love her but she does not say the same. How can I know if she loves me back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

22 February 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Two years ago i had a girl friend whom she really loved me Daily she could write "I Love You" but to me on knowing her background i decidded to break with her but she insisted that no matter what i do she will continue loving me, After that i switched to my current Fiancee ... (111 words)

Me and my fiance are christians. Should we have sex before we marry?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6107 days ago

22 February 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I've a fiance whom we've been dating since last year.She and i are christians,is it good for us to have sex since most of the time we spent together?We were organising for an outing but how will we spend our time during that outing,will we sleep together and have sex?please ... (54 words)

He couldn't sleep and I was the first person he text messaged. Does this mean something?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

22 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a male friend who I get on with really well. We like the same authors, we like the same music and when we're together we just "click". Really fancy him but I've never told him. Recently his grandmother died so I have been giving him some space just to deal with it in ... (194 words)

Is this an okay gift for my sick grandma?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6112 days ago

22 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Not really a love question I'm afraid but wanted advice anyways and thought this would be the best place. Mothers day is coming up and I'm planning to get my mum this book which is full of questions and thne it has space for her to answer them. It's all about her childh... (344 words)

I dumped my ex and started a new relationship. Did I do the right thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6116 days ago

22 February 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I was with my ex for 5 years, and lived together for 4. We met at the age of 21/22 while at University and had an incredible bond. We've grown together but during the final year I started to get depressed because my life wasn't where I thought it should be. I had dreams and ... (792 words)

I'm 20 and still a virgin. I'm struggling to cope! What can I do?

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

22 February 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, I'd really appreciate some advice about this. Please bear with me; I've never spoken about this to anybody, and I need to get this off my chest. As a 20 year old virgin (a male virgin no less) I find myself feeling blue a lot. I have this nagging feeling of being... (400 words)

She's smoking while she's pregnant and I'm worried. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

22 February 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - we are expecting our second child. My wifes been smoking for 6 years now and she won't give up i keep telling her dont you realise your harming the baby. she says im going to quit but the moment my backs turned or if i go to work and come home the house smells of smoke. worse ... (141 words)

I feel threatened by my wife's ex, with whom she maintains contact. How can I drive these feelings away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

22 February 2008 (M)

age - My wife has an ex...I have have always been able to put my past relationships away, to an imaginary place of non-existence. I can't seem to do it with hers...It hurts...they have contact by email and phone(at her work). I feel betrayed... I wish I did't have these feelings, ... (139 words)

I love my husband, but I want to be single and independent again.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6113 days ago

22 February 2008 (F)

age - I am so generally fed up. I just dont want to get out of bed most day. I lost my job recently and havent worked since. My daughter and i moved in with my bloke and his daughter over two years ago and nothing has been right since with them, the kids just hate each other. We got ... (206 words)

I love him, but I can't leave him! Please help me, I don't know who else to talk to.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

22 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear I just want your help, because I have nobody to talk about my relationship. So I have been one years and 3 month with my boyfriend, and i gave him all my best and i keep doing that everyday.So during the time,i gave him space to go out all the time with friends, not with ... (211 words)

Do you think he sees us as serious too??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

22 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I was with a man I like so much and he invited me over and hopefully we are going to be going out as boyfriend/girlfriend soon! We had a lot of fun and I am so into him as he is into me I know well.We talked alot and he mentioned how "nuts" it would be us all living together ... (264 words)

Why is it impossible for me to pick up a guy my own age??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

22 February 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 25 year old gay student I have black hair, grey eyes, a slammin body. If I look like this why do I keep getting picked up and hit on guys that are old enough to be my dad? I mean with all my assets and charms why is it impossible to attract a guy who is around my age? ... (62 words)

He wants a child more than anything as do I, but I am unsure about the timing. Should I sustain my opinion?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6117 days ago

22 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - about 4 months ago i had a miscarriage. my husband was devastated when we found out. now he wants to try again. i told him i wanted to wait a little longer and he said he does not want to be an older father. he admitted he has been hoping i would "accidently" get pregnant. ... (92 words)

Should I forgive him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

22 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so I have known this guy for about 5 months. We started out as good friends but began dating and dated for about 2 of those months. We had a long distance relationship with the agreement not to date anyone else out of respect, and b/c we didn't have a desire to see anyone ... (141 words)

I became friends and slept with a man that turned out to be married when I had grown strongly attached to him... what will I do now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

22 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - So, i was pregnant with my boyfriends baby but, he become callous and selfish and i became lonely and depressed. I recently moved from where i was living for 10 years and spent some of my major developing years to a nice quiet, quaint town..knowing no one. I was on the internet ... (1559 words)

I hear a lot about negative aspects, now what are the benefits of having sex?

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22 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf and I have been dating for over a year. We love and care about eachother. We enjoy spending time together. We like to make out and kiss. We are both virgins. We have been talking about sex. I think we will end up doing it. We have both spoken of an interest i... (301 words)

When we are alone in a private location on the plane what are some fun sexual activities that we can do?

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22 February 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I often fly night time flights that do not have many other passengers. I have thought that it would be fun to join the mile high club. What information/advice do you have about joining the mile high club? I would really like to do it with my girlfriend. Assuming that th... (323 words)

Do you normally write a thank you note after sex?

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22 February 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - The next day after having sex for the first time with a girlfriend is it expected that I write her a special note or e-mail? I am not good at writing notes. Is it just to be a thank you note? What are some other things that I may want to say? Can you give me some ideas? Woul... (92 words)

What is your advice about getting her to take me seriously about my desires?...

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22 February 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Greetings from New Zealand. I found your site while surfing the web. It is a good site. I see that you answer questions regarding sexuality. I have a few questions. I’m 15 and my girlfriend is also the same age. We have been friends for years. We have become girl... (345 words)

Does she like me? Is she angry I didn't try to be more than friends?

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22 February 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, this may seem stupid to ask, but I like this girl in school, shes really nice, sweet and smart, she was in my class for the first few years, and she was really nice and talked to me a lot and complimented me, we were great friends, but then our classes split up, and now she ... (252 words)

I think I maybe a teen mum and need advice. Please help.

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22 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a teen and may be pregnant . I believe I conceived later than I thought than the time after my last period which was January 5th . I am believing I conceived when my period was suppose to come the first-second week of February(this month)period never came . I been ... (304 words)

Should I make my attraction to my boss any clearer than it already is? I suspect the feeling is mutual.

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22 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I just started a new job a few weeks ago and basically from day one, I've felt a mounting attraction to my boss. He's smart, sexy, hilarious, SINGLE, and not that much older than I am, and I can hardly keep myself from thinking about him even when he's not around. I see him ... (236 words)

We used a condom, so chances are I'm not pregnant. Am I worrying too much?

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22 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am really afraid that I am pregnant. But then again, I think I might be worrying too much. I had sex for the first time, with my boyfriend who is extremely experienced. We had sex at the end of December, and a couple times at the end of January. I got my period on January ... (121 words)

How to break up with him in a sensitive way?

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22 February 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - If you have this boyfriend who you really do not have feelings for anymore what is the nicest way to break up wiht him? ... (26 words)

Confronting my cheating boyfriend!

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22 February 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - This past weekend, I visited my boyfriend at his home. I found some text messages between him and another woman that suggested there is a relationship between the two of them. She stated to him to let her know when he gets home so they can talk about the two of them, she ... (146 words)

I'm 23, female, Irish, never dated, struggling with the dating scene!!

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22 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 23, I've no idea how to meet someone, or how to deal with it at all especially just meeting someone in a club and not knowing them. I like to get to know someone for a long time before dating them. This habit, isn't getting me anywhere at all. How can I deal with going ... (210 words)

He called me by an ex girlfriend's name while we were having sex!!

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22 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have never been self concious before, but I have been having a problem with coping with a lot of issues in my sex life lately. I know that it is completely normal for a man to pretend like he is have having sex with another woman while he is actually doing the deed with me. ... (103 words)

I feel his ex calls him more often than is healthy!

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22 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband has a child with his ex. Of course they have to communicate about the child but she still finds it necessary to call him at least once a week about something completely unrelated to the child. Last week it was a question about ceiling fans. This week she called ... (81 words)

Does anyone really participate in group sex or is it only a fantasy on porn sites?

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22 February 2008 (M)

age - Does anyone really participate in group sex or is it only a fantasy on porn sites? It seems like it would be fun with the right couple if you took precautions.... (31 words)

What do you do if you want to live a somewhat wild sex life at home but your wife is from the old school so to speak attitude wise?

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22 February 2008 (M)

age - What do you do if you want to live a somewhat wild sex life at home but your wife is from the old school so to speak attitude wise? I have tried different things but nothing really gets any better. Recently we have been going out with my oldest son's friends a lot including ... (89 words)

I think I'm falling for my cousin!

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22 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Agony Aunt Ever since I was little I had this thing for my cousin. He's 3 years older then me. We would always play hide and go seek and we wold hid in my Grandma's closet and we'd do strange things. I don't remember most of it though. After we got older something happen... (358 words)

Is fate against us or will be ever be together???

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22 February 2008 (F)

age - 5 years ago I was moderating in a quiz room and met this wonderful man. We got on like a house on fire from the onset and eventually met 6 months later. I was reluctant to meet him as he was married and when we did so it was only as friends. We met a few times afterwards ... (900 words)

What do I do to get her out of my life for good?

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22 February 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - well this is a question about a cousin we used to be good friends and now i cant stand her. she completely had nothing to do with me during the time of my separation and divorce, which she was friends with my ex husband before we got a divorce ever since she was little.she ... (157 words)

How do I ask her out without risking our friendship?

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22 February 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I met this girl several months ago and she is one of the sweetest people I know. We've gotten very close as friends, but just recently, I can't stop thinking about her and want to become more than friends. I'm dying to tell her how i feel, but shes told me about a guy that she ... (156 words)

Help! Can any one help make some sense of this?????

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22 February 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Okay please help me... I just found this site and from what I could see people here seem friendly enough and certainly mature. I am not a young girl and I believe I know in my heart what is right here but I have to ask some mature men out there a question. Women please f... (613 words)

I don't feel loved by him...

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22 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Wow, when I didn't things could get worse. My boyfriend and I went through a really rough time. He cheated on me a few times and broke my heart. I love him and wanted to be with him, so I forgave him. I found out i was pregnant and just recently miscarried (blighted ovum).... (613 words)

Should I walk away from a 7 year relationship?

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22 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend and i have been together almost 7 years now, we dont live together and we dont talk about the future, he lives at home and is very close with his mom, i like that they are close but he cant even go out anywhere with out calling her. i only see him about 3 times a ... (120 words)

My girlfriend of 5 years quite frequently accuses me of cheating because I don't always cum quick enough for her...

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22 February 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend of 5 years quite frequently accuses me of cheating because I don't always cum quick enough for her or if I don't want to have sex. We have a very satisfying relationship and are quite experimental. How can improve upon this situation as i am not cheating and she ... (56 words)

How do I know if he's cheating on me?

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22 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Is my boyfriend cheating? I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 20 we have a 6 month old daughter togeather and things have always been rocky with us but now its worse. We've only been togeather for two and half years. My boyfriend is a big jerk but I love him...( I don't know why) When I ... (121 words)