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writes:I wonderd about this and i think finally that i was right all along. I like older wemon, it's because i don't like the imature actions of a lot of the girls at my school and thus making me not like them. But older women i have been around even if there only in collage and are 19 or 20 they are more mature then a lot of people at my school. Is this normal. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2008): My first sexual experience was at 16 was with a woman of 30. I was mature enough to emotionally handle it very well and never regretted doing it. We had sex regularly for about a year and during that time we did it all. My parents were gone a lot so I never had to explain where I was or what I was doing. I really don't concern myself as what some of you may think of her. She offered it, I willingly took it and we both enjoyed it. No, I don't feel she took advantage of me. Not all situations are black and white. My only regret was she was so much older. If we were closer in age, somthing permanent may have come of it. By the way, at 26, I still occasionally enjoy the company of older women.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2008): Being in my mid twenties, I have found there is a lot of pleasurable talent out there in the form of older women. I have generally found much older women are much more excitable in bed. Perhaps it's the thrill of a younger man still wanting them. Whatever the reason, they needn't take a back seat to any younger woman as far as sex goes. They may not be as atractive as the younger, but the encounters have been quite nice The secret seems to be convincing them the sex is nothing to be ashamed of, and you aren't going to spread it around. That could cause them embarrassment. I don't talk.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2008): I am a 19 year old guy. I work at a supermarket part time while attending college. My work, among other things, brings me in contact with a lot of women. I take groceries out to the car for women. I am shocked as to how forward some older women can be. First couple of times I played it off. Finally, I said what the heck. Let's see what this is all about. To date, I have been to bed with four much older than me. In their fourties.. Three were still rather nice looking and one a bit chubby, but was still ok. One was married, which I didn't know at the time, and that definitely scared me when I found out. Not too cool. The sex was fantastic with all of them. In fact, much better than with some girls my own age. I now look at older women in a new way. They may not be as nice looking as younger, but their bedroom performance is definitely not lacking. I never brag about this to my friends. I wouldn't want to embarrass anyone and don't want to get fired if it ever got back to my boss. There is this shame about older women and younger guys. My attitude now is, if I find them attractive and willing, why not? They all seemed to enjoy it. I sure did. In fact, I have met more than once with a couple of them.
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reader, Moviefan +, writes (25 February 2008):
Moviefan is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks, its just ive always been a little mature and most of the people who are my age are kind of imature and its a turn off. And Age is a massive deal and the fact that this will go away with time makes since becuase my mom and her boyfriend have a 10 year age diffrence. But its just i have never seen anyone really date anyone with this kind of age diffrence thanks.
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reader, h20gal +, writes (21 February 2008):
 Absolutely normal, I'm with a man who is 8 years younger, and we are truly in love, he feels like he met his best friend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2008): yes of course its normal i think most younger men hav fantasies of been with an older woman i should know im marrying a much younger man
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2008): There is nothing wrong with older women, but i cannot ever see a problem with age gaps. So, if you want to ask an older girl out then go for it, dont worry about what other people think, it is your life.
take care
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (21 February 2008):
 You may prefer older women but have you ever thought that some older women do not prefer younger men when it comes to love?
They may prefer you as friends but in love....??????
Generally speaking but with exceptions, most women prefer an older men because of their maturity. That is the norm.
In today's world, older successful and single women in the 40's are dating younger men and are known as cougars.
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reader, Namatjira  +, writes (21 February 2008):
As you reach adulthood you will learn that in many cases age is just a number. When you are a teenager 3 or 4 years age difference can be enormous yet by the time you are in your 30's or later, even a 15 year age gap seems of little importance.
How do we define what is normal. Well it is largely a cultural thing. In our culture we are told that big age differences are somehow wrong without any reasons why that make sense. In other cultures it is normal for much larger age gaps in both directions, older men with younger women and older women with younger men. You have to find what is right for you, accept the fact that not everyone will agree, and then just get on with life.
Hope you work it out.
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (21 February 2008):
It's really normal and as you grow up you'll realise that if you are mature and treat them right,you can have steady gf years older than you.The youngest girl i've dated was my age mate.I guess older girls seem more compatible with you.However,be careful as some older girls may just abuse you emotionally and i don't mean those in their 30s but even those 18 or 19.
Take care.
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